Have you ever been near orgasm with just the tone of a voice? Or let me take it a bit further, have you come to a climax by just the use of words? No touching, nothing to see but what you can imagine. You haven’t even touched yourself, well not your genitals anyway just some winding of the hips.
For some this may seem so far fetched. You know, we take so many things for granted, not realizing the pleasure that can be had in “simple” things. We all know that the way we express ourselves is very important. Most of the way we do this is verbal. Every tone change can mean something different; it can put us in a totally different mood. You can be happy one minute, but let somebody say something you do not like and like a knee jerk response you are angry and full of resentment. Ten people could have told you that you are beautiful and you are feeling all y and confident, then one person comes along and tells you that you are not so attractive and instantly or even your confidence fades. You have to look extra hard in the mirror to see your beauty. Why is it that we hold on to the negative easier than the positive?
We see how powerful talk can be. Be conscious of how you use language and tone. It can make a world of difference. Now this brings me back to my original question. Have you ever been so aroused, so ready to burst that you actually did just that by what someone has said to you or by the sound of their voice? I have, and it was one of the most pleasurable experiences I’ve had. I assume that I was so open to this because I have been consciously paying attention to the moment and allowing myself to feel and take in all of the sensations, pleasant or unpleasant. I mean this wasn’t some phone sex line if that is what you are thinking. Well, let me tell you about it…
I was on the phone with my love. It was really late or really early after 1 a.m. and the love was flowing. He was telling me all of the things I wanted to hear complimenting me and such and I was telling him. We were exchanging lovely genuine dialogue. His voice was deep and milky smooth. Everything he was saying was sending chills up my spine and making me cross my legs as I lay and listened to him.
Our conversation became a little more intense to say the least; I’m guessing he could feel my heightened arousal at this time because his talk became… ehem, very pleasing. As I lay there I noticed all I was saying was mmhm yes, yes mmm. Then I start arching my back and touching my skin. My eyes are closed and I bite my bottom lip. My moaning becomes more apparent now. I start rolling my hips and grabbing my sheets. I could feel this intense energy in my pelvic area. I continued to roll my hips around and around up and down. I decided then to see if I could move the energy up, so I visualized the energy moving up under my belly button. Oh my! I could feel all of the sensation I felt in my pelvis and genitals there. I move the energy up even further to the center of my chest. I feel vibrations, I move it up again to my throat, there it is pulsating, and it is incredible that I am actually able to feel the same pleasure here, but now it is more intense because I am in awe. Then I move the sensation to the center of my forehead and my moaning becomes more vigorous. Next the top of my head, now I am shaking, my entire body is illuminated with pleasure. My attention goes back to the genitals because, well, you can imagine what happened. The river was flowing. I mean I was vibrating and in pure ecstasy and hadn’t been touched. I wasn’t looking at porno or on the phone with some stranger making up stories to get me off. It was pure energy from his voice to all of my centers, purely orgasmic. I had an energy orgasm. Do you know about those? Well I will give you all of the sensual details. Stay tuned to my blog or even better look for my book coming real soon.