I talk a lot about women getting the pleasure and satisfaction they deserve in their love life. Your partner is a tremendous help in this process, but it is up to you to find the pleasure and satisfaction. You can not lay there and wait for him to bring you to orgasm. If you do that you cannot blame him for your lack of fulfillment in your encounters.
I know some of you lay there like "ah man he aint doing it right, another night no orgasm, here we go, what is he doing, I'm tired of this, he aint doing a damn thing." Or sometime we even want to rush to the orgasm.
If you are laying there waiting for your man to bring you to orgasm and you are giving him any energy, what do you think is going to happen? he wants to feel good as well and he does that by knowing you feel good. Get into it and i guarantee you will fell something. Make it fun, Make sounds, Touch him. Watch how his energy changes.
If you come to love with a selfish, demanding or defeating attitude the love will not flow.