sensuality unleashed (The Coochie Church)

Change Your Life Today!!

2011-12-18T15:03:00.000-08:00

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Get it Tight! An Especially Sexy Gift For You.

2011-12-17T16:06:00.000-08:00

I have been using the Jade Egg for some years now with great sexual and health benefits. I want to offer it to all of you women out there. I have been asked about this so many times and asked if I offered it. Now I do!!

I (Dripping Bliss) has pure and natural jade eggs, which are sturdy, smooth and non-porous. These eggs are drilled just for dripping bliss costumers and were shipped from China.

I am so excited to provide this gift for you.

Your jade egg will also come with a beautiful silk pouch also from china (reminiscent of Chinese kimono).

Let me tell you a bit about the Jade egg. The Jade egg has been used in China and other civilizations for centuries to aid women in tightening their vagina muscles to have enhanced sexual sensitivity for them and their lovers. It is a over 2000 year old practice and was a secret! Doing vaginal exercises with the egg also increases blood flow to the area which means more pleasure! They are used to assist women in having more harmonious menstrual cycles. You gain mastery over your muscles. This can be a spiritual experience as well since you are awakening your life force energy, your chi or sexual energy. While using the egg you will be moving that powerful energy in upwards and it then can be used to have a deep sexual spiritual experience. The egg heightens your chance of being an explosively orgasmic woman.

Using the egg prevents many debilitating post-pregnancy problems, assuring easy childbirth, recovery, and healing including incontinence issues for all ages.

The egg is drilled to provide easy removal by adding a string. Or as you become more proficient in your practice you can add weights for vaginal weight lifting!

You can restore your vagina to a healthy,tighter stage, nearly virginal.

I am now offering a special package deal on my two powerful classes below and the Jade egg all for only $50! Yes you get both classes that promises to change your sexual/sensual health life and the magical jade egg and pouch for a deal of $50, a 20% discount!! Hurry they will go fast first come first served.

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This comes with a smaller egg to use when you have become more proficient in your practice. It can also be added to the larger egg for vaginal weight lifting excercises.

A Sexpert's Secrets to Being a Multi-Orgasmic Woman and Having a Powerful Vagina

2011-12-17T01:49:00.000-08:00

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In these great recordings, I share the secrets to achieving the fountain of youth for your vagina, improving your health, overcoming sexual and reproductive problems. These recordings will allow you to have to have an excellent sex life and how to have those craved, earth shattering G-spot orgasms!

The health of your vagina affects overall health, your orgasmic potential and your ability to have enjoyable sexual experiences. Having an unhealthy vagina can have a detrimental effect on confidence as well.

Do you really know the power of your vagina, your womb, this great portal of life?
Well find out. Did you know your vagina is one of the most powerful creations within this universe? Find out how you are poisoning your vagina everyday and how to stop.

In Part 1 you will learn:
The Foods and herbs that increase libido and sexual pleasure, boost your health, and tighten your vagina

Why your negative thoughts about sex and men are literally making you sick, unfulfilled, and non-orgasmic and how to change these thoughts

The power of being feminine and how to connect to your feminine nature and create the life you desire!

Simple tips of sensitivity and sensuality training and its benefits.
These simple tips will make you feel sexier and boost your sexual confidence!

The secrets to being a powerful goddess! These secrets will allow life and the things you want to effortlessly flow to you!

A simple technique for rejuvenating your vagina. This technique will boost your vaginal health and libido.

The importance of loving your vagina and how to do so. This information will boost your self-esteem, sexual confidence, increase your joy levels,

The metaphysical, emotional, and mental reasons why you have reproductive problems like fibroids and unhealthy vagina that prevents your pleasure

What everyday products and toxins that you need to avoid to prevent fibroids, endometriosis, and other reproductive ailments

The Hidden Dangers of feminine hygiene products, vaginal creams, sprays, and lubricants

Do condoms harm your vagina? I will discuss how they do and what are the safest condoms for women to use

The causes of urinary tract infections and how to naturally cure them

Struggling with vaginal odor? I will share simple solutions to eliminate bad odors

Is intercourse painful for you? I will explain the mental and physical reasons why you are experiencing this and how to remedy it

The ultimate vagina wellness diet. This dietary tips will forever end yeast infections, vaginal dryness, reproductive problems, and keep your vagina smelling great, looking young, and supple

Have an issue with frequent yeast infections? I discuss the reasons why you do and tell you how to rid of them and keep them away.

Simple dietary tips and herbs that will keep your man virile and potent

Want to naturally increase your lubrication and overcome vaginal dryness? I will tell you exactly how to do this.

A natural contraceptive that is 100 percent effective at preventing conception that has been used for over 2,000 years by women!

Natural ways to prevent pregnancy that are more effective than condoms!

Powerful affirmations to create the life you want, become a powerful, free, and orgasmic woman!

Let’s tap into the power of your vagina. Let us remove pain and heal.

This information is so powerful I had to do it in two parts! Be sure to get both!

In the second part you will learn:

How to have the most explosive and earth shaking orgasms. Most women aren’t having them but I will tell the secrets on how you can!

Videos on techniques to tighten your vagina for better sex, increased sensations, and more powerful and explosive orgasms.

A special Yoni massage guide to open the way to being a multi-orgasmic woman and increasing your sensuality, sexiness, and self-esteem!

Simple, easy tips on how to seduce your man into pleasing YOU And so much more!

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Jamilla is at the top of her field and has an incredible gift and passion in coaching and guiding people towards creating lives they desire and experiencing the wonder and beauty that they are. She has totally transformed the lives of many, young and old.

Jamilla celebrates her sensuality and loves to empower, inspire, and teach others to celebrate themselves, live fulfilled lives, enjoy intimacy and allow their sexual energy to freely flow. She lives what she teaches and lives in state of bliss every day and is passionate about teaching people how to do the same.

That Does Not Mean You Love Me

2011-04-26T07:23:00.000-07:00

In my work I have spoken a lot about the many things that women experience in their lives that keep them from having fulfilling sexual experiences. The same things that cause the latter are also the causes of many women being unable to form healthy, loving relationships whether a friendship or marriage. Because of the trauma experienced from these events in life, without the proper support and healing, women who have gone through these things find themselves in a downward spiral of heartache, abuse and self depreciating thoughts and behaviors.

Recently I have had a number of women contact me who are going through this downward spiral. Also recently I again have come face to face with some feelings from my personal experience of pain and abuse. This is what prompted me to make the focus of this writing “Domestic and/or Partner Abuse.”

A woman is physically assaulted every nine seconds in the United States according to the Family Violence Prevention Fund Report 1994.
According to the Surgeon General 1992, relationship/ domestic violence is the leading cause of women injuries in women aged between 15-44 in the United States, which was more than rapes, muggings and automobile incidents when combined together! These numbers have unfortunately increased since then.

This is not an issue to be swept under the rug but an issue that affects many lives every day. The people who this affects sometime are never the same. This can be for the better if the proper components of intervention and healing are addressed. Unfortunately research shows that often times it takes the side of the worse.

Partner abuse is still misunderstood. The mind-set, because of the constant glorification of violence that we live in is an underlying indifferent mindset towards assault on women. Somehow, there is an attitude that somewhere it is the woman’s fault that this is happening to her. There is an attitude that she did something to cause the violence or anger afflicted upon her person. This is exactly what the women who are in these relationships believe as well. This is also part of the reason they stay in abusive situations. They believe they are not doing enough to make the relationship successful. They have feelings of inadequacy and always feel blamed for any tension that arises in their relationship. This is partly due to the brainwashing that takes place during the relating. Also women stay because they develop or are conditioned to a state of hopelessness believing nothing they or anyone else does will alter their circumstances. Sometime they feel completely incapable of handling the situation.

There was actually a survey done of 200 teenagers after the Rihanna/Chris Brown incident. Nearly half of those teenagers said they felt Rihanna was responsible in some way for the violence of Chris Brown. “46 percent of the kids surveyed said that they thought Rihanna was to blame for the beating; 51 percent said Brown was at fault, and 52 percent said that both of them were somehow responsible. And, according to the survey, a significant number of males and females said Rihanna was now destroying Chris Brown's career.”
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Many more took this situation lightly, making many jokes as if this were a joking matter.

This is not a writing to take the blame or responsibility off of the women to take control of their lives but an attempt to inform with the hopes of empowering anyone that may be in an abusive relationship. Also this is to empower those that have left to seek support and healing. This is to let them know that life does not end with that experience and that there is a promise of a life of joy, love and ecstasy if they learn to open themselves to it.

We all have all the tools and power we need to make a better life. At times that does not seem to be within reach. Everything is dark and at times you may hear a voice that says” what’s the point?” I know, I was there. The thing is some of you don’t know there is something better. Some of you do not know that you are in a dysfunctional situation. I am going to share my story with hopes that many will see their story in mine and wake up to what’s really happening. First, I will share a case study I was working on. Maybe some parts of this story will hit home. I know it did for me as many of the signs were exactly the same in my situation. It is important to pay attention to the signs and listen to the great tool you have called intuition. Here are some common signs that you are in an abusive relationship or heading in that direction:

Is jealous or possessive toward you.
Jealousy is the primary symptom of abusive relationships
Tries to control you by being very bossy or demanding.
Tries to isolate you by demanding you cut off social contacts andfriendships.
Is violent and / or loses his or her temper quickly.
Pressures you sexually, demands sexual activities you are notcomfortable with.
Abuses drugs or alcohol.
Claims you are responsible for his or her emotional state.
Blames you when he or she mistreats you.
Has a history of bad relationships.
Your family and friends have warned you about the person or told you that they are concerned for your safety or emotional well being.
You frequently worry about how he or she will react to things you say or do.
Makes "jokes" that shame, humiliate, demean or embarrass you, whether privately or around family and friends.
Your partner grew up witnessing an abusive parental relationship, and/or was abused as a child.
Your partner "rages" when they feel hurt, shame, fear or loss of control.
Both parties in abusive relationships may develop or progress in drug or alcohol dependence in a (dysfunctional) attempt to cope with the pain.
You leave and then return to your partner repeatedly, against the advice of your friends, family and loved ones.
You have trouble ending the relationship, even though you know inside it's the right thing to do.

Here are a few more.
• Constantly keep track of your time?
• Act jealous and possessive?
• accuse you of being unfaithful or flirting?
• discourage your relationships with friends and family?
• prevent or discourage you from working, interacting with friends or attending school?
• Constantly criticize or belittle you?
• control all finances and force you to account for what you spend? (Reasonable cooperative budgeting accepted.)
• humiliate you in front of others? (Including "jokes" at your expense.)
• destroy or take your personal property or sentimental items?
• threaten to hurt you, your children or pets? Threaten to use a weapon?
• push, hit, slap, punch, kick, or bite you or your children?

Derived from:
http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/abusive_signs.htm

This is the case of “Susie”

I met Anthony through work when I was 22. The relationship seemed ok in the beginning, but in hindsight, there were warning signs of what was to come. They were little things at first: coming over unannounced; showing up unexpectedly when I was out with my friends; phone calls that seemed to be a little too frequent. I made the mistake of interpreting these early signs as strong romantic interest. Before long he had moved in with me and his behavior had become obsessive and controlling.

Anthony was really threatened by my friends and my social life. He hated that other guys would look at me, or that I'd slept with other guys around our neighborhood, even that I had quite a lot of friends who he felt "competed" with him. Tiny things that had not even occurred to me as being possibly offensive would cause enormous rage. The more I was attacked, the more and more I withdrew. It was a self-defense mechanism – I figured if I could stay away from anything that might cause him to get upset then that would keep him calm. That didn't work of course – he simply found new things to be insecure about. I realize now the whole strategy was to keep me feeling perpetually blamed, inadequate and not doing enough to keep the relationship together. I isolated myself from my friends, my family and from everything that I used to enjoy doing. To get me away from my previous life, friends and sex partners we moved to a different city where I knew no one except him.

I was by nature a very happy, outgoing person, but I quickly became cautious and scared all the time. My fear escalated when the physical violence began. The first time was because he had seen me talking to someone I'd had a fling with in the past and he punched me in the face because of it. From that time on, even though the physical violence was occasional, the fear of it happening pervaded my life and he would threaten me with it often. Punching, pushing, restricting my physical movements (like blocking doors if I was trying to leave a heated situation), destroying or giving away my property and refusing to take care of me if I was sick were punishments that would be meted out when simply threatening me or humiliating me in public wasn't enough.

Anthony was from a racial minority. One of the biggest headfucks was being told that the violence was part of his "culture" and the fact that I had a problem with it meant that I was racist. The problem according to him was not the violence – it was the fact that my racism meant I couldn't accept who he was. It was me not him, that had to change. I now understand that violence is not culture – there is no ethnic group on the planet that celebrates partner abuse as a cultural identity.
Apart from my massive social withdrawal, the affect on my sexuality was really destructive. I became ashamed about being sexually attractive and about having sexual desires.

Money was another big problem. Successive rent periods came where Anthony would spend all of his pay on gambling and alcohol within 48 hours of receiving it, leaving me to pay all the rent and then provide food for us for a fortnight – impossible and it meant instant poverty. As a "solution", Anthony put me in control of his finances but it was only a license for him to be as irresponsible as he liked and simply demand more money whenever he wanted it. Of course, refusing because the rent needed to be paid for example was a dangerous move. On top of all of this, he would also frequently get me to do his work for him. It wasn't uncommon for me to be producing his reports until all hours of the morning while he watched TV. I had given up on my life ever being enjoyable again. My whole sense of individual identity was gone and I felt as though I barely existed.

A lesbian friend from the previous city I lived in sent me a book about SM sub-cultures (one of her favorite things) that contained a chapter on the difference between an SM relationship and domestic violence. There was a checklist of questions to ask yourself to determine whether you were in an abusive relationship and when I found I was answering yes to almost everything, a crack appeared in the brainwashing and manipulation that had filled my head. I suddenly realized that I had to accept that I was in a domestic violence relationship.

I took the grand leap of confiding in someone I worked with about my situation and one afternoon, after Anthony threatened to "break both my legs" when I got home that night, this colleague generously lent me his spare room for a week while I "disappeared" from my home. During that week I found a new place to live and, with a Police Liaison Officer, I went to pick up my belongings and left.

A new phase of harassment and stalking that included a wide range of manipulations and threats (ranging from "Come back - I've changed!" to "If you have sex with another man I'll kill you and him") followed.

I decided to move to another city again and start a new life. It's taken a long time to feel confident about having sex again and the idea of getting emotionally close to someone is still shaky. I still feel wounded. But I've learnt some really important lessons about violence and the difference between control and love and I'm slowly working off the debt I left the relationship with. Day by day, I am rediscovering who I am. The most important thing for me now is that I am safe, I control my own life and I don't live each day terrified of going home.

I will go into my story. Usually the signs and abuse are consistent in these relationships. Some of them are even more severe or can even be subtle. Notice the similarities in the stories.

Now In my case there were signs that I ignored as well. At that time I wanted so badly to once and for all find the mate of my dreams and settle into family life. I also ignored them because the person in my case seemed like a well to do upstanding guy. As a matter of fact I am fighting urges to name him to save others from being fooled as he his positioning himself to be a leader in the community of health and speaks extensively on polygamy. I know he has not worked on his issues of control, anger, insecurity and feelings of powerlessness that will have him to abuse again. However I will not do this because I know everyone has to go through their own experiences. I am exploring if feelings of resentment are also the cause of my urge and it not being of altruistic purposes only.

I ignored the signs because I wanted so badly for him to be the one. I ignored the signs because of the position I thought he held. I also took some of the abuse because I thought I was the one to blame. I did something to him or in the relationship to cause his anger and insecurity.

The relationship lasted maybe a year. He contacted me through the internet because he said he respected my work. I looked him up and I respected his as well. He was into health and exploring fruitarianism. He was on a number of radio shows and it seemed he was making a way for himself. Not too long after that we would chat for hours online and then on the phone. I took a liking to him. He seemed perfect.
Not too long after talking he discussed some family issues with me and he was moving constantly. All of the issues his family seemed to be beating up on him and he the victim (the first sign). I took it as he was the victim because I know the hardships in family life at times. I ignored this sign.

Next he seemed to want to get extremely close to me at lightning speed. He told me he loved me less than a month of us talking and never meeting in person. I told him I did not feel quite this strongly yet and he said I did I just didn’t know it yet. I just took it as a compliment of my feminine powers and charm that he loved me so quickly, soon after he was moving in with me. It was supposed to be temporary until he found an apartment and started medical school but ended being indefinitely. I just knew he was the one and by some divine intervention this all happened so quickly because it was meant to be. This was my mistake and naivety. This is where I didn’t heed to common sense and this would be my fault not the abuse that happened after.

My family warned me. My mother using her intuition tool and common sense told me this wasn’t good. She did not get a good feeling with meeting him. I ignored her.
Well in to the relationship he started telling me my male friends just wanted to have sex with me and he saw no need for them to be around or for me to talk with them. Once when one of them came by to meet him and visit me he accused me of being in love with him. He screamed and told me he wasn’t welcome in my house anymore. He told me I had to much sexual energy and I needed to tone it down or I was asking for something to happen to me.

I remember sharing with him how I used my feminine wiles (smiling and being sweet) to not have to pay a very expensive gas bill. He proceeded to throw a tantrum in the middle of the street telling me to “Stop using your sexual energy to get what you want!” He told me I was acting just like a whore. When I would bring things to his attention he would accuse me of wining “that stuff that women do to try to get their way. You women think you can just sit around and look cute and do whatever you want. Stop all that wining.”

The first time it got physical was when I asked him to hurry because I was late for a meeting. He walked up to me jabbing his finger in my face constantly telling me to never rush him or talk to him that way again. To keep from being embarrassed in public I acted like it didn’t happen. I just asked him quietly if he wanted to keep his finger and was he crazy. I was a bit shocked as well. I stayed.

The next time I was doing some work and he wanted to talk about an issue. I told him we would talk later. He insisted we talk now blocking me from reading or writing. I finally gave in. We talked it got heated he withdrew and started reading. I closed his book. He got up and slammed me against the wall. I pushed him away and he picked me up and slammed me and got on top of me and dug his nails into me neck and bit me. It was surreal and I went numb. I thought it was my fault. After all I should not have closed his book or pushed back right? Wrong, closing a book does not warrant violence against a person. He was also abusive towards my children, physically and verbally.

You see how the abuse escalates. It starts verbally. The abuser gets into the mind of their partner. Then maybe a light slap or physical harshness to all out assault.
The next and last time he was upset and jealous that I was leaving town for a photo shoot. He argued with me before I left and told me I just wanted to go to see my male friend. He would call me every five minutes while I was there and would go off if I didn’t call him. When I got back he started an argument. I needed to leave to get food. He said he was not going to allow me to leave because it was getting dark. I asked him to go, he said no. He blocked the doors so I could not get out. I sat on the couch and I told him that this is not working. He has to leave. He came to the couch and pulled me by my ankles my back and head crashing against the hard floor. He got on top of me and held me down while I fought to get up, biting, head butting and kicking. He told me to stop being violent. That I didn’t have to say anything to just calm down. He was blaming me.

That night he acted like nothing happened. I told him it was over and when he left to go to NY for school to not come back. He continued to blame me. I asked him did he feel it was okay to be violent as he ignored my question. I continued to ask and he finally said “Yeah I was violent but you being doing stuff too. You’re not innocent. You women try to make it seem like you are the victims, getting these men caught up, sent to jail and all that when ya’ll be the ones bringing on yourselves.” That was the last time I saw him.

Not too long after my house was broken into. Pictures of me and other personal items were taken. He still had a key to my house. After that I was receiving phone calls late into the night. The voice would threaten to rape me and do other harmful things. I had to get the detectives involved because I was being stalked.
After this situation because I already had a good spiritual foundation I knew I had to do extensive work to heal the trauma from this so I could move on. I did feel violated and questioned whether all this was my fault. I questioned if I was too sexy and should I do the work I do. I felt guilty for being in that relationship and my children being a part of it as well. I felt stupid and weak. I felt embarrassed. I wanted to keep the mask of having a perfect relationship. I wanted this time to be the time. I felt like a failure.

I knew for sure that I did not want to stay in that dark space. I knew the feeling of happiness before so I knew it was possible to have this again. I did not want to be “the bitter woman.” I wanted to be open to love, to give and receive it. I knew in my heart that although everyone has issues everyone didn’t have these issues. I wanted to know again that people were not setting out just to hurt me and I did not have to stay in a victim mentality. I knew this because I had a foundation. Many women do not have this and do not know that happiness and freedom is available. It is certainly available with some work. You have to do the work.

I went into my bag of tools and came out victorious. I did the painful work. It is not easy. I will never tell you that. The rewards you receive form life make it worth it.

I am grateful in a way for all of my experiences. Now I am able to help all that come to me with great experience and passion. I can relate. Dripping Bliss my company is helping woman get back on track every day. Dripping Bliss is assisting those who are recovering from these relationships to love themselves again, to find who they are not only sexually but emotionally and spiritually.

I know this writing was mostly directed towards women however I am also aware that men experience abuse as well. Dripping Bliss is here to provide the same for the men who are struggling from the affects of abuse.

It takes courage and honesty to seek something better for your life. It also takes consistency as the healing does not happen overnight but is a process. I have no doubt that if you experiencing this, that you have the strength that it takes to heal yourself and seek support. You are still here, you survived and there is a guarantee of a new life of clarity and joyfulness if you dedicate yourself to doing the work that is necessary. We are all the soul-controllers of the events in our lives. If we do not take control we will continue to see the same patterns.

Many people who abuse also have gone through a destructive pattern that they feel trapped in. If you are there you need to know this as well. You need to know that with work you can relinquish the need to control and any insecurities and conditionings that will have you to behave in a harmful manner towards yourself and others. The first step in both situations is to be honest with yourself about any issues than seek support.

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How are Keeping Your Relationship Hot?

2011-01-29T17:27:00.000-08:00

Dripping Wet

2010-11-28T11:41:00.000-08:00

Dripping Wet drips with fluorite and amethyst with a sexy swaroski crystal heart charm. Fluorite balances energy and opens up the centers. It is also great for lubrication. Amethyst is said to make the wearer gentle.

Sweetness

2010-11-27T17:19:00.000-08:00

This ultimate feminine strand is dripping in amethyst for strength and protection and the watery,yielding energy of mother of pearl.The pink and purple glass beads make this oh so sweet. Fits size 29' only. Ask if it can duplicated.

Kundalini Swirl

2010-11-27T16:46:00.000-08:00

This fun piece has sandstone for creativity. You can adjust the extended swirl in any shape you want. Be creative whether it is in your bedroom or the
boardroom. These waist beads are your little secret.

Juicy

2010-11-27T16:08:00.000-08:00

Juicy is dripping in baby pink and gold glass beads. Also dripping in amazonite for self love and a voluptuous dose of confidence. This simple but elegant piece will fit your sensual needs

The Best You Ever Had...Now I Own You!

2010-10-17T08:24:00.000-07:00

There was a time in all of my relationships where I felt as if I had to be the perfect woman so my partner would never want any other. I wanted to look like the woman of his fantasies. I wanted to talk like her, dress like her, and walk like her. I wanted his every thought to be occupied by me and me only. In every relationship I would get to work creating an image of what I thought he desired the. I would wear my hair the way that seemed to attract him the most. I even went on starvation diets if I thought he liked thinner women and then eat more if the next seemed to like them thicker. If he liked aggressive and meaner women I would be that even though I am usually soft spoken and laid back. I mean I would go through a whole charade.

This did not stop with just looks and demeanor. It included my sexual activities as well. I always felt I had “to put it down.” I had to be the best he ever had and have the best pussy so he would not even think of being with another. He was going to know by the time we were done that he would never find another like me and if he just happened to go to someone else she couldn’t be as good as me and he eventually try to run back.

On the surface this seems alright, I mean who wouldn’t want to please their partner. However it is deeper than this and has adverse consequences.

Looking at my behaviors outside of the bedroom showed I had feelings of inadequacy. I didn’t think that being who I am was enough. No matter how much they told me I was beautiful or perfect, sexy and smart, I was always afraid they would find someone more beautiful, perfect, sexy or smart. I always had in the back of my mind that the relationship would not last, that they will eventually cheat and I would be left alone, neglected and abandoned. These were root fears from childhood that I was now exhibiting in my adult relationships. “If only I could be more, all that they want they will love me and never leave me.” This was my bruised inner-child voice that was never acknowledged and dealt with so continued to yell in my subconscious ear and dictate my behaviors.

Those relationships did not last, of course because I went into them with doomed thoughts that manifested. Not to mention the thoughts and behaviors of my partner because most of us have not been taught or have seen positive examples of successful relationships. I actually told them at times why they don’t just find someone else. So every time one of those relationships ended it fueled my self- depreciating thoughts. And sometime added more depending on how the relationship ended. This was a never ending cycle of pain.

Another thing is I felt that if I did all these things and made them want me more I would have control over them. This was also all about control. I could control their thoughts, were they went and all their behaviors. If I kept a leash on them I wouldn’t have to worry because all of the attention would be on me. I could see everything he was doing to pacify my insecurities and doubts.

It was no different with sex. Besides, what better way to control then with one of the most powerful energies that exists? All I had to do was make sure he was “whipped” and I had him. This never lasted because it was all surface and stemmed from hurting.

It got to a point where I could not take this cycle any longer. It had gotten so dark and heavy that I was being smothered, it was literally killing me. I knew I had to do something so I dived into my tool box. I began extracting the root causes. I began pulling out the thoughts, clearing my body and energy of the blocks they caused. I began exercises that built my confidence. I started my journey into being truly orgasmic in every aspect of my life. Through my healing I also realized that the dominant sexual behaviors I was acting out were actually keeping me from my bliss.

When you are so busy thinking and performing tricks in sex it actually takes you further away from ecstasy. You are not relaxed but always thinking “how am I doing, how do I look, am I whipping him yet?” Thinking, being in your head is an adversary to orgasm. I always tell my female clients feel your pleasure and they will surely feel pleasure. Receive it, and they will get it just because. Special tricks are nice but not if it is keeping you in your head. Letting go is even nicer. There is nothing sexier than a woman who truly knows her body, is relaxed and can enjoy intensely the experienced shared. There is nothing sexier than a woman who can receive. Faking it is out of style and was one of the worst trends ever invented. We don’t have to do that anymore. We just have to reach into the tool box like I had to do. This is what I always provide for my clients, tools and support. My journey and experience have provided me the great pleasure to be a vessel for healing for others and I am grateful for this gift and look at it as my responsibility.

We have all that we need to have all that we long for. The problem is we have not been taught this. We live in a culture where making you feel awful about yourself brings others money and fame. We live in a culture where everyone is preoccupied with looking and being the “ideal.” What is sad is the “ideal” in this society is fake and unattainable. We live in a culture that follows ridiculous and damaging trends because someone famous did it. So a lot of people kill themselves emotionally, spiritually, sexually, physically and mentally to reach something that is an illusion created by the enemies of your bliss. We live in a culture where blinding you of the power of sex and orgasm to the point of neurosis because the lack of keeps others in power and in control of you. You become mindless unhappy non-orgasmic robotic consumers. Voila!

Now this is something you want to take control of, your happiness, your mind, your life. Your concept of beauty is just as valid. Who you are is just as important. I am happy I learned this.

What is your cycle? What are the behaviors you continue to act out in your relationships? What are your self-depreciating thoughts?

Pick up a copy of my book "Have You Ever Had an Orgasm"... to learn how to overcome your obstructions here http://www.amazon.com/Orgasm-Womans-Guide-Everyday-Bliss/dp/0981723594

Visit www.drippingbliss.com or email me at info@drippingbliss.com to find out more about my services.

Let us pray: Let us know that all we need resides in us. Let us know that because we are here we bring our own kind of special to this world and that makes us beautiful and divine in every way. Let us use this wonderful and powerful gift of sex to become closer to all that is. Let us use it to increase love, healing and peace. Give thanks!

Intensity

2010-09-11T12:25:00.000-07:00

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Intensity drips in garnet and rose quartz. Garnet increases libido and passion. It is a potent sexual stone enhancing desire while rose quartz is for deep love and enhances relationships and attraction. It is also great for tapping into your feminine nature. This strand is adorned with a deep red crystal heart and gold and copper pieces for a sexy sensual touch.Reminds me of the Kama Sutra. Click the pics for a closer look.

"Tasty"

2010-09-11T12:06:00.000-07:00

Tasty has fluorite that aids in proper lubrication so get ready to be hot and wet. the glass amber prism beads gives this strand a nice shot of earthy sensuality and appeal

"Beauty"

2010-09-11T11:43:00.000-07:00

Beauty is dripping with sandstone said to enhance creativity and a sweet dispositon. This strand is made with vibrant blue,red and amber glass beads to heighten your senses. Specify waist or pant size when ordering.

That Table!

2010-08-26T21:07:00.000-07:00

I am sitting on that table, waiting with only my loose fabric wrapped around my waist and a strand of waist beads anxious for you to uncover them.

You roll up to me in your chair with longing in your eyes. I rest my feet on the arms of the chair and you waste no time putting them/my legs on your shoulders.

You grab my ass and pull me closer licking your lips in anticipation. My clit throbs in anticipation, remembering how your tongue glided effortlessly on, around across her.

I moan even before you touch her, my body imagines...

Finally, your tongue, your whole tongue gives me what I have been waiting for.

You lick me, moaning to let me know she tastes good

Grabbing my thighs, you flick my clit with your tongue

I am shaking and calling out your name....

You send me into ecstasy every time.

My juices flow unto your tongue

and I can't take it anymore

You slide your fingers in my wet pussy

Making my juices gush

As I gush you stand

and quickly thrust all of your big dick inside of me

you want to feel all of my wetness on you.

You thrust and stroke until I am screaming and shaking

I am coming all over you again and again

Your moans make me even more excited

and I come again and again

You become even more excited feeling me so excited

You thrust faster

and....

your

juice

is

all

over

my

thighs

oohhh

You let out a groan and can hardly stand.

I cannot contain myself

Damn! That table.

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Yummy Dripping Bliss tees and tanks

2010-07-08T18:19:00.000-07:00

Tanks are available in white,pink,and green. Tees in white only. Please specify when placing order. Please specify size as well

Tongue-ing

2010-06-30T18:40:00.000-07:00

If you ask me, sex is not sex without kissing. I mean deep passionate kisses, those spontaneous kisses. The kisses you can barely give because you are too weak from bliss.

There is a certain connection that happens with a kiss. A kiss is extremely intimate and can sometime be more intimate than penetration. During sex a deep kiss can mean the difference in good sex and great sex. It can mean whether a deeper connection is being made on more than a genital level.

There is a reason for this. Tongue kissing is more spiritual than we thought. The tip of the tongue is associated with the heart. So when you kiss you are making a heart connection. It allows the energy flow to be locked and travel between the two. Think about your last really good kiss. Did it not feel as if you were transported to another world, a sensual world full of pure bliss where nothing else mattered but that moment?

Some time you will have partners who do not want to kiss. Most times this is because they are only interested in making a genital connection. Kissing may be too personal for them. It really is now that we know it connects the heart. If you are with a new partner and you notice they won’t kiss you during sex or you don't feel comfortable kissing them, this is probably a sign that you need to work on getting to know each other more. I mean if it is not hygiene issues of course, but that is a topic for another blog.

Some women say "If you're not lickin' you're not stickin'." Well, for me this is kissing. If you're not kissing you not lickin,stickin' hittin or anything else. For me this means we have not reached a level of intimacy or trust and I cannot see giving of the rest of me if we cannot meet at this level.

A great kiss can make you feel loved and beautiful. I can make you feel sexy and wanted. It can also give you those feelings of being in love. Be conscious of your love-making. Are the lips being avoided? I mean the ones on your face. Why? Do you want a deeper connection or are you ok with the base level? It is up to you.

"Deep"

2010-06-30T11:01:00.000-07:00

Something delicious for the ladies. Great time to get your waste beads. "Deep" dripping in smokey quartz flowers to enhance spititual sex and enjoyment,abundance,endurance. Also dripping in beautiful blue shells and glass beads.

Wait! I Forgot About Me!

2010-06-24T15:10:00.000-07:00

Lately I have been really exploring the notion of being a people pleaser or excessive care-taker. People pleasers work hard to make sure everyone is happy and things are flowing properly with other people. They have a hard time saying no and feel guilty when they do for self. A people pleaser usually feels like people are taking advantage of their kindness. Often they go unfulfilled and have a great amount of suppressed anger and resentment. I know this first hand because I am a recovering people pleaser and caretaker.

People pleasers fear being exposed or judged. They feel flawed in some way and compensate this by excessive giving or niceness. They feel if they act in this way people will forever show grace unto them or see them as the perfect expression of love and kindness. With the over pleaser the giving is not for the other person but for their own image. It is for them an assurance that no one sees them for who they really are. No real intimacy or emotional contact can be established this way. People pleasing and care-taking are is a way to distract from one’s own feelings of inadequacy.

Here there is an underlying feeling of unworthiness. They feel unworthy of the same pleasing and kindness being bestowed upon them. Over pleasers do more and more because they need more and more. The more they need the more they give acting out the shame of needing. Pleasers feel they are not in control if they need for something from someone else. They also fear becoming a burden on anyone. Or they fear if they receive openly the person will ultimately take advantage of them.
Over pleasers sometimes have a hard time speaking their minds. They definitely have a hard time asking for anything and will often carry a load fit for many all alone. This is what builds resentment and anger. They do not express what they are feeling when it is necessary and then feel slighted. They bite their tongues because they do not want any form of conflict. This energy builds and will eventually causes a meltdown or explosion.

Now they began the victim attitude. “All I do for people and this is what I get” attitude, the “people don’t appreciate me” attitude, the “I do best by myself attitude, the” I’m just gonna keep my love to myself “attitude.
Pleasers do not realize that because of their patterns and mindset, consciously and unconsciously that they attract their circumstances. I like to look at it as the unfavorable events come to you so that you may grow, heal and clear the emotional baggage that keeps you repeating the same behaviors and allowing the repetitive conditions.

In some way pleasers natural expression to need was stunted or this part of them was shamed deeply. It is important to find out where. What is at the root of the behavior? Maybe they were neglected. Where weren’t your needs met? Did you have to take on this role at an early age because of dysfunctional family dynamics? Has someone made you feel guilty for needing or made you feel you were less than because of a need for someone or something?

People pleasing are one of the causes of being non-orgasmic or the ability to enjoy sexual experiences. The over pleaser does not know what pleases them and does not expect pleasure. Even though they do not expect it, they still in some way blame the other party for not being able to get them there to that climax. They accuse the other, in their minds, as being selfish. Then they repeat the event again because of the addition to please and again come out unfulfilled.

There is healthy giving, loving, pleasing and caretaking you must find the balance. Practice saying no when you really want and need too. Find ways to delegate responsibilities and assert yourself. You do not have to be mean to do so. But if you feel the need for a little more force that is ok. Know that your emotions are not your enemies but ways in which to grow. Feel them but do not let them control you. Feel them, acknowledge them and let go so that you may express them in a healthy manner.

Take the time to have a sensual date with yourself every week. Take a nice bath with the music you like. Take yourself out to eat or to a movie, all alone, just you. Do something big and something simple just for you often. There are also other techniques you can use to help clear the ideas like the Emotional Freedom Technique. For more info on this email info@drippingbliss.com also Google EFT.

Moon Goddess

2010-06-07T16:34:00.000-07:00

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"Moon Goddess" with Jasper for stability and clarity. Known as the niuturing stone, it brings tranquility and wholeness. it prolongs sexual pleasure and encourages honesty with self. Balances yin and yang and absorbs negative energy.

2010-06-07T16:01:00.000-07:00

"Girly" dripping in flourite to enhance sensuality and provide lubrication. Said to bring flavor to sexual experiences

Emotional Roulette

2010-05-10T17:53:00.000-07:00

I’ve played this game before.
Guess I like it dangerous
Blown away by the thrill of it all
Gagging my intuition
Not wanting to here it all
I’d rather have the thrill
It’s mysterious
What will happen next?
Will I let curiosity get the best of me?
Or is it all in my mind
Maybe the chamber’s empty.
Just what I am afraid of
I need something to fill me
Something in my heart
But will it be the death of me
Or will it set me free
I’ve played this game before
Wondering
Waiting
Hoping
The adrenaline fuels me. It feels so good when it feels good
What will I do?
Will I risk it?
It’s staring me in the face
Calling my name
Sounds so sweet
But it feels so dangerous
What will I do?
What would you do?

The Coochi Church Blasphemous?

2010-04-27T16:44:00.001-07:00

The Coochi Church- a space of healing,empowerment and pure bliss. The Coochi Church is indeed a sacred space helping us to connect and communicate in the purest of forms. It brings transformational information on sex, spirituality,health and so much more (not as if these are separate).

I love you all, we really must get our priorities together. I have been called blasphemous,hood and all other kinds of criticism on this name. Today I got mail from someone saying "I will have to live with my choice." What was this implying? This makes me wonder if the complete movement of healing has been ignored.

My company Dripping Bliss helps many every day live their best lives,happy,free,sensual, healed and in complete bliss. However I have to say that as a healer these things can be a bit alarming and disheartening.

My work includes helping people to see there is no separation in the divine and sex but it is one, and in this ritual you are able to experience that. Sex and sensuality can be used as a form of praise or worship to become closer to your god. This is a great gift, it was created for you. It is powerful. how can we miss this, it is the reason we are here.

How are you ever to heal if you do not open and come out of your comfort zones?

In choosing this name, my vision was to bring people together especially women and enlighten them around the great power of the sweet feminine energy. This quickly grew to all people because I saw the need for proper communication and lessons in love. I saw the need to heal for everyone and wanted to help do this. I have worked with both men and women and have seen the lack of living truly joyful and sensual lives on both ends. I saw the lack in honoring self and others. I knew we needed to get together and change this to see the god in each other once again.I began The Coochi Church.

So when i get mail saying I need to change the name, I ask for what, as if god did not make coochi. Coochi is the portal in which life comes forth! Coochi will heal this world because when you have happy healthy coochies you bring forth happiness and health. So hell no The Coochi Church is not going anywhere and I will continue to spread this message and contiinue to manifest healing and power. I will continue to assist those who come to finally live the beauty they desire.

I love support and suggestions for we do this together. Please be open and come from a place of love and continued growth. (and actually read before commenting just by the name)
Be In Bliss!
www.drippingbliss.com
www.orgasmicbreakthrough.blogspot.com

Something you Do Not Want to Miss

2010-04-08T18:26:00.001-07:00

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Something you Do Not Want to Miss

2010-04-08T18:26:00.000-07:00

Woo Hoo! The Art of Wooing

2010-04-01T17:16:00.000-07:00

Back in the day courting was the thing to do (from what I have been told). Men did not approach a woman without the proper thought and advance. A lot of the time if he could not pass the tests of the parents he did not even get to the girl. This meant his strategy had to be precise. He had to be sincere and genuine in his woos to win both the family and his interest over.

Fast-forwarding to today, standards have become very low if they exist at all and chivalry is ever dying. Children no longer seem to be receiving the message that one must be deserving of your affection and time, as you have to deserve theirs. Fathers are not in the home protecting their daughters and teaching their boys properly the ways of being a polished man. Mothers are over-stressed and bitter so they cannot show their daughters by example the power of a relaxed, receptive, feminine woman. Their sons also do not have an example of what to look for in a woman.

There is a lot to be learned from the good old days. The power of wooing is one of these things. Wooing is defined as, to seek the affection of with intent to romance, to court a woman.

Too many men have lost this most important skill. Wooing is a very powerful talent. Wooing, if done properly can and will have a woman melting in your hands. If done properly, it will not take long for her guards, inhibitions and reluctance to come tumbling down. She will be yours. She will want to give you all that she has in regards to love and affection. She will protect you, support you, honor you and be extremely loyal. She will be the best lover for you, learning all the tricks to keep your mind only on her. Yes, wooing if done the right way will have her wet and ready for you all the time. You will occupy the majority of her thoughts. She will be anxious for you and crave you. Yes, wooing if done the right way will give you one incredible woman and one dynamic freak.

Since a lot of the ability to be orgasmic starts in the mind, wooing sets her up to be explosive. Men, if you set the proper mood, meaning you know what to say at the right times, you know what she likes, if you mix the proper amounts of gentleness and fire you are giving foreplay for the mind. If you know that you need to keep your personal hygiene intact, this includes teeth and nails, if you smell nice and look well put together this is foreplay for the senses. Even if she is not ready to take it there with you, believe me, it will not be long.

Now you may say, “how do I know what to say at the right times, women are so sensitive. Or how am I to know what she wants?” this is where the sincere listening comes in. if you really want to know you will learn her. A woman knows fake wooing, and when a man is just trying to hard. Her intuitive nature will notice it right away and it will be a complete turn off. This has to be something that you feel genuinely. You have to honestly feel her. That way all of your smoothness, your swag and passion about pleasing her come natural.

She wants to feel wanted and needed. She wants to feel as if she is the most beautiful woman in the world to you and that none other even exists when she is with you, even if she knows and is ok with you being with other women. She wants to know that you will protect her, that she can count on you. This is all starts in wooing.

There are still men who can woo a woman’s panties right off. This only happens with women who are receptive and open. I have talked to women who are not, and have become so accustomed to negative ways of relating that they feel a man is always up to something if he is doing any wooing. They feel there is always an ulterior motive, it is either he is just trying to have sex with her or use her for something else.

Then there are the women who do not appreciate the wooing. They show extreme selfishness and spoiled attitudes. They will make a man feel like all of his efforts are wasted and attempt to make him feel low.

There are women who no matter how much a man do it is never enough. She holds on to her detrimental ideals, her mistrust and disdain. These women do not receive wooing and need other means of becoming open. Do not become disheartened. The feminine beauty is in there, injurious circumstances have made her this way. Move on or work through it with her if you believe you can deal with that.

I personally love a man who takes his skill (wooing) seriously. It is the sexiest thing in the world. It shows he actually put some thought into who I am. It shows that he cares about pleasing me and that he knows how to keep himself together.

Try it men, take a journey back to the good old days. It works!

Sweet Morning Dew

2010-03-18T17:38:00.001-07:00

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"sweet morning dew" drips in glass pink and green beads with a butterflies fluttering in the beauty of amazonite said to build self-love, confidence and improves self worth. It also enhances creative expression. It assists in manifesting universal love! bee that sweetness you long for.

Rock Steady

2010-03-11T18:58:00.000-08:00

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"rock steady" dripping in jasper and coral. Jasper is a powerful for sexual healing and energy. It is said to help with lack of desire. It grounds and calms. Is great for stamina so you can rock steady as long as you want.

Sensual Flow

2010-03-10T17:25:00.000-08:00

"sensual flow" is a nice contrast of red coral and citrine. Red coral is said to enhance virility and aid in conception and menstration. It is also a great emotional healer. It has the properties of venus (love,beauty). Citrine helps one feel confident and experience the joys of life. Also dripping in pure glass and copper beads sure to help you get into the flow of bliss. $35

Flirtalicious

2010-03-10T17:07:00.000-08:00

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Flirtalicious Dripping in rose quartz,citrine and delicious pink sea shells, flirtalicious will make you feel like a flirting queen, full of life and bubbly seduction. Rose quartz is an attraction and love stone, citrine unlimited prosperity - use, enjoy, and release so more and better things may come to you. $35

Work That

2010-03-09T16:02:00.000-08:00

So, I have noticed I am a very old school type of woman. My grandma would always tell me, "Never approach a man, ladies don't do that." Now I have expressed this to other women and a lot of them say, “what century are you living in!" However, I still carry this. I, to this day, have never approached a man. Not that I am afraid, I just have come accustomed to this. Well, I won’t lie, sometime I really want to but I like to wait and see, use my feminine magic to get my way, for example.

There is this guy I have been scoping during my morning commute. He is so FINE and I really want to talk to him. Every time he gets on the bus it is super crowded and he cannot see me so I can't give him the "look"! You know the "look," sweet, naughty, shy, I really want to talk to you so come over here and get the digits so maybe you can get it look.

We get off the bus at the same time so I came up with a plan. One day when we got off I decided to catch up with him and walk pass him, just so he can see me. I would send him some energy as I pass just for extra affect. Ok so the crowded bus is emptying and I am trying to keep my eye on him. We both are off and heading for the train. I am behind him and get to check him out even more. He has the nicest butt! He is tall, slim and looks professional and focused. Oh no, he starts to run for the train, damn, ok quick, I had to think of something. I pretend I am rushing for the train as well. Now on the platform, no train yet, here is my chance. I begin my sexy professional strut. All the men on the platform are following me with their eyes. He is looking down at his Kindle. Just as I was about to pass him, here comes the noisy train and he rushes to the front. I rush towards the front car as well. By this time I am cracking up at myself. I can't believe I am doing all of this. It was a fun eventful morning.

So now I am in the same car as he. He stands. There are seats but I decide to walk near him and stand. He is at that Kindle again. Another man tells me I am beautiful. I say thank you, and he looks up, finally! Yes, he looks at me like "wow he is right" I wanted to give him the look, now, yes this is it, but this man won’t shut up! He keeps asking me questions and I am being polite. Finally I was about to do it....He is back at the Kindle. Sigh.

We get off again at the same time for yet another train. He is walking ahead again. We get underground he sits. I go the other way that leads to where he is just to be modest. I am walking near him. I see him look up and stare at me all the way until I am in place. I look at him he responds with his eyes. I place my laptop bag on the bench, stand and wait. He will be coming in no time. I feel him preparing himself, and then my train comes. I have to get on because I am running late; unfortunately we do not share this train.

So, I'm assuming your thinking all of that could have been avoided if I had just said something. Probably, but I enjoy being coy. I am wondering if I would get the chance again, who knows but I know I do love seeing my feminine power in action. I do not have to loud and obnoxious to get attention. I don’t even have to say a word.

Someone asked me once do I think women should be more passive and the men aggressive. I think it is relative. I know for me and just by observing and speaking with many of my clients, women accomplish more, feel more at peace, beautiful, sensual, are more likely to have orgasms, happier, feel more self-assured, and powerful when they flow. There is less sickness and worry.

A woman has many different personalities. She can be fire or water at times, however it does not serve a woman to be fire (aggressor, yang) all of the time. A woman's nature is water (passive, yin, qualities of the moon). She can cause all to flow beautifully and serenely, but also cause destructive tsunamis. If a woman carries to much fire her womb eventually burns out. This manifests as hostile dispositions, being non-orgasmic, extreme anger, dis-ease, bitterness, fear, and defensiveness to name a few.

Being a bit reserved at times saves energy and opens the way for ecstasy, joy and prosperity to flow right on into your life. Coquettish or sweetness from a woman gets her a lot more than mean and nastiness. There is no power in Bitch. It is all false, an illusion. An illusion filled with fear and self hate.
I have gotten all that I have wanted. Every man that I was interested in has approached me, first and I never said a word. Sweet energy did the trick. Feminine grace and an inviting disposition helped. You better work that, ladies, feminine power that is.

Sweet Mama

2010-03-05T16:31:00.000-08:00

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"sweet mama" dripping in fresh water pearls, blue glass and crystal beads topped off with silver flowers. Bring out your sweet nurturing side. Feel Your feminine grace and learn to go with the flow. fits 27-28' can be extended. $30

Sermon: Changing Hearts

2010-02-28T20:01:00.000-08:00

I am extremely grateful for the lessons that life bring me. I am learning more and more not to fight, not to push but just to be an observer of any circumstances that occur. I like to use my life as one big experiment, finding new ways to grow everyday. Digging deeper into myself allows me to work towards the perfect me, for me. I find something and I review and refine then on to the next big experiment.

These experiments are not always easy. Some are very painful and challenging and I am attempted to abort the mission. I have a few times, only to have life place it right back on my dissection table.

One thing I have noticed about myself that in my past breakups I felt that it always helped me to think about all the negative things about the person. I thought, if I came up with all the reasons I should hate him, this will allow me to get over him quickly. "What were all of his faults, what did he do to me"?

I now know that this only quickly moved me into bitterness. Bitterness did not keep me open to receive the great things that would surely come to me. It made me defensive and cold. This is not a good look for an orgasmic woman. She has to be warm and flowing to experience her ecstasy. I am not in the business of missing out on any ecstasy.

I began to wonder, what if I thought the opposite of every negative thought I had about my ex, what affect it would have on me. Even if I perceived he did me dirty. I knew I did not want to continue feeling down and angry. It felt so ugly.It was about me and my healing. What if I thought about all of his good qualities, because he did have them or else I would not have gave him the time of day. I knew in doing this however, I had to keep in mind why we weren't together so I wont run back to the situation that was not in my best interest or even his for that matter.

I did this and I found myself smiling more. I found myself not looking for in other men all the wrong things that was wrong with my ex. I found myself not hating everyone because of this situation. I was open and happy. I was fun to be around. Not a drag and draining everyone Else's energy. Yes,still it hurt at times but recovery was a lot sweeter. I knew my happiness depended on changing the way I behaved with this.

Now I am not saying I did not experience anger. There were times I screamed and cried and cursed. I wanted him to hurt. I felt great despair. There was a bout where I could not talk to anyone. These things have their place. I acknowledged them, experienced them and let them go. I did not become a slave to them.

By making the conscious efforts I came to other realizations. I realized love does not die, mine never did anyway. Every man that I once loved, I still love. Love is eternal. How could such a powerful thing be dispensable? Once anger and loathing moves away,whatever someone has done to us we see love. Forgiveness is a self-centered act that opens us up to giving and receiving love again. We look at an event learn, then move forward for us. Why continue to stay there? There is so much more to see and feel. Why not choose bliss?

I have made a vow to life to always learn from her and not take her lessons for granted. We have chances upon chances to live the life we desire, to grow,to move past pain. We have so many tools to help us along. I make a vow to use them! How about you?

Let us pray: Help us to know our power in our own healing. Let us know that our happiness is our responsibility. Let us have love in abundance to always share with the ones that find it hard to express it. Let us forgive them if they do not know how. Give Thanks!

Master of my Own Energy

2010-01-28T13:26:00.000-08:00

Not all the time do we have the benefit of having a partner to share our energy or practice our love skills. There are also those times when we just want to enjoy ourselves or need to be satisfied right away. That is where self-pleasuring comes in.

Masturbation can drain energy, cause one to become hypersexual and to dependent on fantasy. It can also desensitize you making it harder to receive pleasure from a partner especially if vibrators are being used.

Although there are negative effects from masturbation, there are also some great benefits if used for the purposes of healing, gaining energy and learning oneself.

Masturbation can be a powerful experience of self-exploration and used for meditation. Just as in partner love, you are able to manipulate and move energy for the purpose of healing and full body orgasms. This way you gain energy instead of losing it. Masturbation teaches you to stay present. Learning to use instead of lose the powerful energy of orgasm in masturbation takes focus and practice. However, it is the most pleasurable discipline you will experience. You get to recycle your energy and use it for other things, like going harder on that workout or starting that business you always dreamed. You can use it to prepare yourself for the partner you desire or having that extra spunk to take care of your children. You can even use it to change habits and form new ones that benefit you. When masturbation is used for more than “getting off”, you will feel powerful and invigorated. It is also a great way to learn what you like so you may teach your partner. Yes, all of this! Who knew? Whatever you want, it is possible. It is your sexual energy and power to do and create whatever your hearts desire. It is that powerful.

This is energy well spent.

"Kama Sutra"

2009-12-15T14:02:00.001-08:00

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"Kama Sutra" One of Dripping Bliss favorites. Be transported into a world of sensuality, love, and enticement. This one is made with 5 strands for extra sensuality. It Drips in Garnet said to induce passion,seduction, and sexual vigor, rose quartz for love and seducton. Pure copper and gold charms and all the colors to take you into the world of bliss

"I've Got Sunshine"

2009-12-14T13:03:00.000-08:00

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Radiate light, joy and sweetness. Be the sunshine on a cloudy day with this strand, dripping in citrine and cowrie shells adorned with copper butterflies and pure glass beads. Citrine is said to bring happiness and cheer to the wearer,heighten sensuality and sexuality. It enhances confidence and clears negativity. This strand is versatile and can be worn many different ways including around the breast! $40 Can be made to fit you.

"Wet"

2009-12-12T10:43:00.000-08:00

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Wet" speaks for itself. Get your love juices flowing with this strand dripping in Fluorite said to have properties of water and air, enhance libido,protect,stabilize and allow you to "flow"

The Magic Ride

2009-12-01T13:30:00.000-08:00

It is said that the sun makes people more sexual, but Calah was feeling nothing of the sort. She was sweaty sticky and steaming hot. She had just got off of work and had to wait for the city bus. The sun was breathing its last sensual breath, burning the sky with crimson hues. Her short waitress sundress clung to her sticky body, especially her curvaceous behind showing her lace panties. Her breast glistened with sweat and the glow of the crimson sky, as if she had been massaging them with oil. She pulled back her long brown hair in a loose pony tail. Then she moistened her thick lips with her water from a bottle and poured the rest over her head.

Calah sat down on the bench. “Wow, my feet hurt” she thought removing one of her sandals. I should have known not to wear these things to work again. She massaged her foot until the bus pulled in front of her. “Ah man no seats! She said louder then she wanted or knew. She pushed her self through the heavy staring crowd. The men were pleased about this. They got to feel her hot voluptuous body rubbing against them for a second. She ignored the looks and licking lips and comments from the men. She reached the middle of the bus and grabbed a pole to hold so she wouldn’t fall over with the rocking bus.

Her heart beat fast, behind her was this guy that she had a secret crush. He never seemed to notice her everyday on the bus like the other guys. When there were seats he was usually reading or glaring out the window.

He was a normal looking guy, nothing different about him; Calah just thought he was so sexy. He wore these flowing linen shirts open enough to see part of his chest. She could tell he worked out, she could see his quads popping through. She would often go home and think of him. She would touch and rub herself until she was wet. She would imagine making love to him. This would bring her to soft moans and sighs as she felt the orgasmic energy tingle through her body.

There she stood in front of him trying to contain herself, her chest falling up and down rapidly. Then she felt a trickle down her leg. “Oh no,” she thought. “Why now someone is going to think I’ve had an accident.” She rubbed her legs together trying to rub the wetness off but it kept coming. “Oh god oh god.” Her mind was racing; she was panicking, then the bus stopped with a sudden jolt almost knocking everyone over. The people screamed with fright and the lights went out.

“What the hell”! Calah shouted. It was pitched black. She couldn’t even see her hand in front of her face. “Well at least no one will see me dripping she said. I could wipe it real fast before this bus starts moving. “Passengers we have broken down in a tunnel. Hopefully we will be moving shortly I have called for help. Please be patient I know it is hot.” The bus smelled of sweat and fury. Everyone was talking and complaining in a worried uproar.

Calah bent over to wipe her soaked legs. In a frightened shock, she felt hands wrap around her waste and pull her in. She smiled mischievously and rose up. “You feel this,” her crush said making her yoni swell with nectar again. “I’ve wanted you for a long time. I can’t, I don’t want to wait anymore. Let me in.” he put his hand under her dress and rubbed her from front to back. Calah was anxious and panting already. She ached for his touch as her sacred spot spasmed yearning for a caress against her g spot. She grabbed the pole with two hands and bent over; she pushed back firmly and began to move on him. He lifted her dress exposing her lace covered voluptuousness. She stood on her toes lifting her behind higher and he pulled his phallus from his shorts. He pulled her panties to the side and pushed his phallus into her anxious yoni. She couldn’t help but moan loudly. He felt good as he thrust deep into Calah. He roared and moaned with his head tilted back in ecstasy. Her yoni was tight and wrapped around his phallus like a tight friendly hand. They could feel their energy intertwining and vibrating into each others body. They were so engulfed in extreme bliss that they hadn’t noticed the bright yellow light emanating from their bodies illuminating the bus.

The others passengers did however. They stared in amazement. These people were having sex on the bus! An almost blinding magical light surrounded them. They were all caught up in the intensity of it that they could not protest.
Calah and her crush continued not noticing their audience. The louder they moaned the more vibrant the light became. As they began to move faster and stronger the light sent tremors through the bus. They screamed and moaned, he plunged harder and faster until they both exploded in an intense rapture of ecstatic pleasure. The light swarmed the entire bus and filled all of the passengers with an intoxicating frenzy. They all laughed with joy and delight. They were completely eclipsed with passion and affection. Everyone became relaxed and comfortable. All the tension and worry left the other passengers. There was complete peace.

Calah and her crush came down from their intoxication to see this completely electrifying sight. All the passengers were carrying blissful smiles on their faces. Some were having orgasmic convulsions. This was some kind of sex magic some of the passengers concluded. Who were these people? They seemed like regular people like everyone else on the bus so how could they make a whole bus experience bliss from their bold encounter? Calah and her crush were just as confused but they knew they had created something in their orgasm and it was indeed magic.

Come Hither

2009-11-25T11:03:00.001-08:00

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"Sweet Assertiveness"

2009-11-25T10:23:00.001-08:00

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"Sweet Assertiveness"

Dripping in hematite and rose quartz, need help intiating? This strand can be a great reminder. Be sweet and hot, hematite brings the fire of mars while rose quartz brings sweetness and fluidity. hematite is a magnet ans is said to improve relationships and is one of the highest spritual stones. T...his stone gives you energy for those long nights and courage to be unapologetic, if you feel you have to much masculine energy do not use this.

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"Romance"

2009-11-25T08:55:00.000-08:00

"Romance"

made with deep red garnet, said to enhance passion, this strand is perfect for the nights when you want to heat it up an extra notch or if you need a reason to bring the fire back into your the bedroom. Waist beads are enhanced with sparkiling heart shaped swarovki crystal,glass beads, and copper findings. Fits 32'-34' waist $25

Come Hither

2009-11-22T10:02:00.000-08:00

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Flirty and colorful, this strand is dripping with rose quartz said to attract love and gives a sense of self-worth therefore being worth love. You won't be able to keep em away with this combination of seductive color crystals, and glass and heart shaped beads. Fits 29' - 31' inch waist $20

Sexual Enhancing Waist Beads

2009-11-21T23:29:00.000-08:00

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"Heavenly Bliss"

Remember to stay in the moment, relax and breathe to feel the bliss that feels like heaven. These beads are dripping in fluorite and amethyst gemstones. Flourite is said to help in staying present and amethyst has a calming effect. With a silver butterfly pendant and sparkling crystal beads you too can float on cloud nine and feel feminine and light with enjoyment.

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First Time's a Charm?

2009-11-16T13:42:00.000-08:00

What was your first time like? Was it filled with love and joy? Was it with someone you absolutely adored and after long contemplation you decided you wanted to give yourself to that person? Was he gentle, or was she over aggressive? Was it a time you will always remember or a moment you wish you could forget?

For many of us our first sexual experience was not the beautiful fairy tale, love take me away scenario, although we wanted it to be (Or did we even know what we wanted it to be with the only examples most of us had was over exaggerated television). It was not well thought out and lacked any creativity at all. Some have told me that it hurt and was not exciting.

Some of us had sex for the first time because they thought it was the thing to do, or the other person would like you less if you didn’t do it.
I will share my story, and I believe we need to do this more to know we all have our unique stories but a lot of them are strikingly similar.

My first time happened in the living room of my boyfriend’s house while his grandmother was down stairs. Of course she did not know we were up there “being fresh”. This was my first time at his house at night, my mother wouldn’t allow it. He always had to come to my house.

At my house we did a lot of petting, kissing and touching with clothes on. This was fine with me. I thought that was it. I would never let him put his hands in my panties, not that I had any clue that I was saving myself, but it just seemed too much. I enjoyed just kissing. Furthermore I could not imagine at that time, by feeling his penis that that thing would go in me! I never even thought of intercourse as an option; maybe dry humping that’s it. He seemed frustrated at times but I didn’t know that’s what that meant. I thought his begging and persuasion was cute. I thought it meant he liked me more. He tried every time with the same results, except the night at grandma’s house.

I didn’t know being a virgin was a big deal until I started talking with my friends and cousins. At sleep-overs they would talk about their experiences, how they had sex with the “fine boy.” I would be like “You let him put it in?!” They would say to me “what you never did it?” It was not cool to be a virgin at that time. Everyone talked about doing it even if they hadn’t.

So I thought that soon I would have to do it too. I figured it would be that night at grandmas. I felt different that night. I had not actually planned for it to be then but I felt it. I was quite during the walk to his house. When we got in he put in a movie and we sat on the couch in the dark. We never watched a movie. I sat in silence waiting for what I knew was going to happen.

He finally made a move. We started kissing as usual and touching. I let him touch me this time and I guess he knew from this that I was going to “do it.” He then started to pull my pants down, then his, to his ankles. We kept everything else on. The couch was narrow and uncomfortable.

He asked me if I was sure, I didn’t say anything. I lay there as he tried to put “it” in. It was not working. He tried putting me on top, which definitely wasn’t working. He tried and tried then got tired of trying on the narrow couch. I wasn’t helping any either by just laying there wondering why he couldn’t do it.

As he walked me home he asked me was I a virgin. I said “No! I aint no virgin!” lying. I thought that wasn’t what he wanted. That night I tried to stretch my own vagina so that a penis would fit. I did not want to be the only virgin.

I guess this wasn’t my first time per-se, my actual first time (intercourse) was not much better. He strapped up with so much plastic. I mean condom two condoms and some other kind of plastic I think it was sandwich wrap. So of course it hurt even worse than without. I did make him take that stuff off. Afterwards I was looking for the blood my friends told me would be there. They told me he had to “pop my cherry” or I was still a virgin. There was a little and I felt nostalgic, accomplished and a little empty. I wondered if he would love me, would we be together and if my mother found out she would kill me!

Not very fairy-tale like, right? For some girls or woman there first experience with sex is very traumatic. Think about your first time? I ask you to do this because sometimes our current behaviors reflect past behaviors and experiences.
For example, If you had sex in the past because that’s what you thought others wanted of you or you thought they may like you less if you didn’t may be a thought pattern or behavior you are exhibiting today. Do you have trouble saying no? Do you lack assertiveness, do you lose who you are in relationships, have sex when you don’t want too?

These experiences can also be trapped in the body. Painful first time sex can make the genitals form protective mechanisms where they may become numb when experiencing intercourse or even memorize the pain and experience that every time. This may be the cause of so many non-orgasmic women. The numbers of women having some traumatizing sexual experience is alarming and so is the number of non-orgasmic women.

Check your thoughts about sex in the past, your first time, even the words we used to describe sex and anatomy, and compare them to your thoughts now. Have you grown? Has things gotten better for you? If they have always been good, that is wonderful. If not there are some things that need to be released.
The first step is to acknowledge there is healing to be done. Be honest with yourself and we can begin the process.

Dance Floor Orgasm

2009-11-03T14:00:00.000-08:00

I have been really feeling the connection dance has to sexual energy and to being sensually present, more than usual and it feels great. I went dancing last night and during cool down I felt as if I was in trance. The room felt like a small caldron of bliss, the sounds blurred and I could not keep my eyes open. I resisted for a minute because I felt everyone would look at me like what in the world, but the feeling of bliss was so intense that it did not matter. Besides this was my moment of enjoyment and I didn’t care anymore. So I danced with my eyes closed being grateful for the moment. I begin to moan and felt a huge smile over my face. It felt so good. I thought if every woman would just dance and move with intent this could be a huge problem solver for the lack of femininity and sensuality that some are experiencing.

There was a great sense of joy that I felt. I opened my eyes and looked around. It seemed all the women were feeling it too! Those that became comfortable anyway. The look on their faces matched my feeling. Wow! When you have a group of women who let go of their insecurities, who are all shapes and sizes. Woman who feel comfortable with each other and let go of competition and jealousy, all in one room sharing energy as powerful as the energy generated in dance...Whoa we can move the world. Talking about collective orgasm!

This happened to me in dance class before. It was a little different however. There were live drums and more yang movement than belly dance. Again during cool down, or circle where everyone free styles, I had my eyes closed and this intense energy began to swim in my belly. It was one of the best feelings I’ve ever felt and I wanted to shout and jump and run for joy. I mean the feeling had no words to explain it.

Another time I saw this happen to someone else on the dance floor. We see this all the time, the intense bumping and grinding at the club or party. Some look like they are in trance and just need to get a room. They are in trance! That energy is powerful and moving through them strongly. It is a good thing. When they leave that party they will feel new and energized, sensual and powerful, mostly translated as "Man I had a blast!" How many times has this happened to you, you hit the dance floor and came away feeling more attractive and energized?

The party I went too, I watched this woman take this man through every position possible. I mean she worked him out on the dance floor. He did not know what hit him. He got into to it eventually after he got over the shock. In their own little corner they pulled hair and sweated and went through every asana they could in dance. There were also live drums at this party which made it even more intense. This was truly a sight to behold. I wonder if they got each other's number.

I mean music and movement can be an antidote for those who have not experienced orgasm or for those who have trouble being in the moment. Try it put on some music and dance like no-one is looking and feel the stress fall off, feel how powerful you will feel. Try dancing sensually and touching yourself while you are dancing, or try booty shaking and see how you feel. I bet you won't be disappointed.

The Conundrum of Female Orgasm

2009-10-31T09:32:00.001-07:00

Over half of American women have never experienced an orgasm. Female orgasm still remains one of the most mysterious subjects in the study of female sexual response. Some health officials still question whether it even exists.
The whole subject of female orgasm sometimes leaves women confused and frustrated, while leaving others purring with anticipation. You all have seen the images of the happily sexed or hyper-sexual woman in the media who is dripping with sexiness who anxiously awaits and ecstatically enjoys her every sexual encounter. While this image is prevalent in media, some women think orgasm is a myth or an urban legend. I’ve even heard women say “sex is way overrated.” Other women try to convince the naysayers that sexual ecstasy and orgasm are real and they too can be fulfilled. I mean why not? Why can’t every woman feel sexy, sweet, confident and sexual fulfilled?

There are any numbers of reasons why women do not have orgasm. Many women have had traumatic experiences, suffer with health issues and some need an attitude makeover. One of the major reasons is the lack of femininity in women today. Because of life’s experiences and societal pressures, women have lost their natural ability to be kind. Unhealthy relationships and trying to climb the corporate ladder can cause women to form a hard shell. Women are not realizing that you catch bees with honey, not vinegar.

While men have their part in enjoyable sexual experiences and healthy communication, women have to awaken to their part as well. Women have to take charge of their sexual pleasure. The first thing they can do is adjust their attitude and the way they think about sex.

What are your thoughts about sex?
1. Do you think it is solely the man’s job to make you feel good?
2. Do you come to bed already ready to get it over with?
3. Do you feel that sex is for the pleasure of your partner only?
4. Sex is overrated.
5. Sex is a sin
6. If I do it he will like me, or if I don’t he might be angry.

Some detrimental attitudes:
1. All men are dogs.
2. I will just get hurt.
3. I don’t need a man.
4. I can just use toys.
5. Men are just good for one thing.
6. I can trust him as far as I can see him.
7. He can’t do anything for me that I can’t do for myself.

While these are just a few thoughts that allow for a women’s femininity to go out the window, there are many more. Harboring these thoughts leads to a resentful attitude. They make a women feel bitter and victimized. There is nothing more unattractive than a bitter and snappy woman. If the majority of your thoughts about sex and your partners are negative, your actions will also be negative. Your general disposition will be negative as well. Your thoughts are energy and that negative energy will be all over you, for all to feel. These thoughts cause blockages in your mind; body and spirit that make it extremely difficult to enjoy anything, especially sex and the gift of orgasm. You then develop a defensive attitude, and become irritable, disgusted, mean and jealous. You become closed towards life, and the ones who really want to love you.

An important thing for women to realize is that being sweet or having the ability to compromise or even being vulnerable is not weakness or being docile, but actually is the core of their feminine power. You are able to attract anything you want or decide the outcome of a situation by the way you act. This includes your ability to experience orgasm. By allowing yourself to do things like be vulnerable, you open yourself to healing and receiving love and affection. This is more attractive than any physical attribute. Opening yourself will open your world of sexual pleasure.

Men want to please, protect and take care of you. They want to know that you are pleased and enjoy your experiences with them. What women have to do is just let them. You do not always have to be in control or on watch. It is okay to let go, close your eyes be loved and just be.

Yes, you need to learn how to do this in order to have an orgasm and enjoyable sexual experiences. Our body, minds, and spirit are connected so in order to heal one area it is best to look at the others. “I just want to have great sex,” you say? Well what you really are saying is, “I want to have a great life. I want someone to honor and love me. I want to know how to honor and love myself. I want to live orgasmically. I want to be happy. I need to learn how to be more sensual. I need to be healthy. I don’t want to be angry or miserable all of the time. I want to let go of the pain from so and so, I want to learn to let go. If you deal with these things your sex life or lack thereof; nor your ability to experience orgasm will be such a conundrum.

So all this talk about great sex and mind blowing orgasm is really not such a great mystery or myth. We all can truly enjoy our experiences with some self – reflection, self – love, conscious efforts and clearing. Here are 10 quick ways to get started.

• Smile more
• Take up dance
• Find something beautiful about yourself every day.
• Say please and thank you
• Find something beautiful about your partner or someone you know every day and tell them.
• Go on a complaining fast.
• Take a sensual bath and take time to moisturize every inch of your body slowly, paying attention to the sensation only.
• Where only the clothes that make you feel like a sexy goddess.
• Eat more fruits and veggies every day.
• Except compliments

Got You Coming Baby!!!

2009-10-21T11:25:00.000-07:00

I haven't forgot about yall! Im working on some new and great things just for you!!! LOVE YOU!!!

Sermon 17: Healing Waters

2009-09-23T17:07:00.000-07:00

He took her by the hand and led her to the couch. "I have a gift for you," he said. She sat on the couch as he knelt in front of her removed her sweater. He kissed her neck. He kissed her shoulders the creases in her arms. He gently pulled her hair allowing her head to give way so he could lick the nape of her neck.

He began to remove the rest of her clothing. Her mind was telling her to resist, because he is new, but her body and spirit would not listen to her mind chatter for once. She didn't know why maybe he had some kind of magic.

She allowed him to disrobe her as her mouth moaned on its own. He lay her back. Her breath was heavy as ever. He just touched lightly, gliding his warm hands across her body.

She moaned louder and bit her bottom lip. He smiled knowing she was beginning to boil. She arched her back and scratched his arms trying to pull him closer.

He knew she was ready. She frantically removed his clothes and pulled him atop her. But he would not enter. She was confused. "It's time for that gift" he said. "What!? she cried back.

He licked his fingers and found his way through her bush. He entered his fingers with a deep thrust that shocked her into ecstasy. He did not stop. This was unlike anything she ever felt. She was frightened but it felt good. She was embarrassed but it still felt good. Than it was overwhelming and she wanted him to stop. He just said "Don't be afraid of your gift" and kept going. She felt vulnerable but safe. She did not know what was happening.

"Breathe," he said and she did. She let out a moan that sounded more like a cry. "What are you touching it feels funny?" she asked. "Your healing button, he said, breathe and trust me right now and your healing waters will flow." She did.

Her body began to shake. Her moans became even louder. Her tears came first. She cried aloud as she felt her body and spirit surrendering. Surrender to bliss, to life, to love, to happiness, to healing, to growth and clarity, to being feminine to being orgasmic!

Then...it happened all in one Gush. She just felt all this warm liquid release with her intense pleasure. She had baptizes his hand

She just lay there paralyzed with bliss and wonder. He smiled, "welcome to a new life."

She got up curious to see what she was laying in. The couch was soaked with her healing. She was purified.

Stay tuned for another post on female ejaculation and its benefits and how to achieve it.

Orgasm Over-dose

2009-09-09T15:21:00.000-07:00

Have you ever felt like you just got high on the best drug ever after having sex. Did you find it hard to keep your eyes open and somehow noticed you were nodding like you took a hit of some GOOD STUFF. What about your hands, did they tingle and become limp. Did your legs shake uncontrollably and you finally realized you just could not take any more.

Oh and your face, did it contort without your consent, and did the moans compose an extended symphony from your mouth. Did you feel like you could fly? Were you possessed by laughter?

Where you unable to resist excess praises of your partner?

Well this sounds like you overdosed, overdosed on orgasm. This is a good thing. This is where the magic comes in. The overwhelming bliss. The time when everything seems perfect.

An orgasmic overdose may leave your body comatose for a bit, while it experiences the multi- levels of ecstasy. While this is happening your spirit is rejoicing and the universe is asking you to impregnate it with your wishes while it implants its seeds of clarity in your heart. AHHHHH ORGASM!

You should never feel depleted after an orgasm. You may have ecstasy coma, but you should feel renewed, blissful, happy, in love (with everything), powerful,sexy and on and on.

Let me tell you how to get your overdose. Do you think your ready for this? It is the best high you can ever dream of.

Make sure you are thoroughly aroused before hand, or if you are not and you start sex any way make sure you become aroused. Get in your favorite position(s) and ride that out to the point of orgasm. When you reach orgasm don't stop! Just go a little slower than speed it up again, another will follow. Allow your body to experience the waves. When you think you had enough breath and take some more, another will follow. Think sexy thoughts. Stay present, continue to bring your thoughts back to that moment. (or fantasize if that helps) Do not hold back any screams contortions whatever. Forget about what you look like. Relax, and breath into the pleasure. If your face contortions are bothering you to the point where you are focusing on how you look and not the pleasure put a pillow over your face and scream into it all you want.

You will know when enough is really enough but don't stop to soon. Happy orgasm!

Sermon 16: Divaism

2009-08-26T07:18:00.000-07:00

I have been thinking and observing the diva concept for a while now. I have really been paying attention to the behaviors of women who call themselves Diva. I've actually been observing homosexual men who call themselves Diva as well.

I have heard people explain this ism in many different ways, it's had all kinds of twist, turns and loops. But I have noticed that one behavior is constant with Divaism. Some may hate me for this cause some are die hard in Divaism, but hey, all I have to offer is healing take it or leave it. I tell you because I love you.

So, to be frank I have noticed in Divaism that a lot of women are conducting themselves as selfish, loud, bitter, insecure, and starving for attention. I seen that the play of heightened security is really a mask of insecurities. It is a facade to try to make everyone believe that they are confident. Everyone wants to be honored, but we cannot force people to do so. We cannot force anyone to respect us. The results will be the opposite.

In Divaism there is a hard shell that is formed. Divaism is a defense mechanism. It is a my way or no way attitude. In a world of so many, in a world of so much chaos, in a world with so much potential to love, we must learn to compromise. It is NOT all about you. You are important and divine and wonderful, so are others.

A "Bitch I'm me you better prostrate" attitude goes no where in the sense of healing from trauma, self loathing, abuse, low self esteem. It is a cover up. Really are you really loving yourself and who you are if you make others feel low around you, or you feel all must bow to your every selfish whim.

Nobody wants a mean and nasty woman around them. Get it together.

This is not to negate the women who have truly made conscious efforts toward self-love. I know I am going to get messages saying well I call myself Diva and I truly feel confident and I know how to treat people, and I work to uplift etc. I applaud you. You are truly divine (hm I wonder if diva came from the word divine)and you are an exception. I see you too, the focused ones with true confidence that will not let any one define them or get in their way of success. The ones that can smile and know that they are fine and fly without trying to make people see it. I see you. I honor you. I believe that Divas want to feel this way, they want to feel divine, but they are going about it the wrong way. They are looking for outside acceptance first when it should be the other way around. They are struggling inside. They are crying inside and praying for true self love and to be free from the darkness of extreme insecurity.

In a book "Sacred Woman" by Queen Afua she has a section where she talks about the "Bitch Possesion." She says, "a bitch is an unrealized woman, encased in pain and filled with fear. She is a woman who feels trapped by life, surrounded by and absorbed in her own waste." She goes on to say that "The Bitch is a negative entity or spirit that possesses the body temple of a woman who has already been filled with rage, hate, envy and despair. It is the opposite of being a sacred woman, and ultimately she will strangle and destroy the one who is possessed by her."

Look at that! I mean for real. Some equate Divaism with being a bitch. Woman are proud of being bitches, of being sick, of being possessed with a demon!!! I've heard women say I celebrate my bitch, my multi-facedness as a woman goddess. This is bull, stop making excuses for that your junk for that demon. Recognize you need healing and do it. I'm not telling you to beat up on yourself more, I'm telling you to accept that this is happening and take measures to heal it.

A true Goddess has a sweet disposition. She works to heal her wounds and those of others. We all have the potential to be great, beautiful powerful goddesses without forcing it.

Let us Pray: Remove from us the need to over power or displace our insecurities on others. Help us to realize the difference between pain and true confidence. Guide us through our healing so we may live in light. Give Thanks!!

Sermon 15: Jealousy is non-orgasmic

2009-08-24T07:34:00.000-07:00

Our beauty is expressed in many different ways. It is expressed in different sizes, shapes, colors and tones. Yet we all become so caught up in how someone else's beauty is expressed. Most times it is not in an appreciative manner either. It is not, "Oh she is so beautiful, it is "she is more beautiful than I, she is more successful, he is more popular, sings better, dresses better, better ideas, capitalized on that idea and I didn't" and so on and so forth. We have so many hangups with this to the point where it makes us literally crazy.

There is so much anxiousness about being "ideal" or how others view us that the insecurities become a detriment to our sexual responsiveness.

Sometime women when seeing other beautiful women will automatically think, "if my man sees her he is going to want her. Or that is really the kind of woman my man likes." If you have this type of insecurity of course it is going to exude from you, that is not sexy. Even in the sexual act, that will show up because maybe you don't feel as skinny as she, so you will keep your shirt on. Or maybe you think because she seems so confident that she is great in bed so you want to do all the nasty freaky things so he will only want you. Not because you want too, or find enjoyment form those things. He may find the woman or women that you are so obsessed with to be repulsive you never know. But if he doesn't that is ok, Men are naturally attracted to women and there are more beautiful women on earth than just you. But you know what, he is with you. So work on it and make it a happy union where you feel honored and beautiful.

I mean it is not that serious that her butt is shaped different than hers, yours is beautiful too. Does it really matter that her hair is longer, your short hair brings out your cheekbones, and your smile brightens a room and your intelligent as hell. Learn to find the wonderful things about you. Say, "she is beautiful, and so am I." that will stop that jealousy spirit in its tracks.

Men, if you are extremely jealous,if your woman cannot walk 5 paces alone without you having a heart attack, or you have to know what she is doing, who she talked to, where she went every second, there can be some problems in your love life. Love does not have to be controlling. She is going to shut down sexually. She is not going to want to give it too you as she would if she felt happy and allowed to be who she is. I mean women love a strong fiery man who is going to protect her, but not an insecure man who is going to flip out if he even thinks another man is looking at her. This is a sign of some major insecurities that will show up in the relationship sometimes as physical abuse. What woman wants to have sex with a man she is afraid of.

We all have to work on ways that we can see and appreciate who we are and what we have to offer. We all have great things, even if we do not see them right now. I challenge you to find 5 things right now that make you great! Having confidence is sexy!

Let us pray: We know that because we have come from you, the great universe, we must be special. Help us to see this and feel this everyday. Help us to not be resentful of others because we can see clearly their beauty, when it is difficult for us to appreciate our own, but allow them to be mirrors to help us to see our greatness. Give Thanks!

Sermon 14: Insightful Orgasms

2009-08-19T16:12:00.000-07:00

The creator has given us magnificent tools to find our way through life. We have been given tools to live joyful, fulfilling lives. We have been told that we are not alone. That we will not be left alone in our times of despair if we have faith, if we know the power and call on the creator in our times of need. We can conjure up that power that is shared with us.

Orgasms are one of the many tools that we have to share in the power. They are one of the many tools that we have so that we may hear what the universe or the divine wants or needs us to hear. Orgasm is so powerful, if used as such that we can receive the answers to all the mysteries of the universe or just a dire question in our lives.

The bliss of the experience brings us closer to God. In that moment we have no thoughts. We are free from judgement. We are experiencing something out of this world when we consciously let that pleasure flow to different parts of the body and into the heart experiencing only the ecstasy and oneness.

You can do this by breathing deeply and visualizing the flow of the energy as a white light moving through your body and especially beaming more intensely at the heart, the middle of our forehead, and the top of your head. You won't be able to help but smile and moan.

Just lay there if you can during and after your orgasm breathing deeply with your eyes closed and open for your answers our any other insights. They will come don't force it just stay with the ecstasy. If you want you can write down any questions before hand or keep them in your awareness while you are experiencing pleasure. Don't forget to write your insights down when you come back.

If this seems like a lot and you just want to get it in, remember you will have those times, however we must take advantage of these gifts that the creator gives us to be powerful, successful and happy. What better way to do it. You cant lose with this one.

Let us Pray: Thank you for reminding us that you did not leave us in a desert without necessities to return home. You give us the gift of pleasure so we may triumphantly get through the pain. we thank you for sharing your abundance with us!
Give Thanks!

Same Ol'

2009-07-10T16:20:00.000-07:00

I am sorting through a quick sand of feelings. On one level I am swelling with bliss and then I am drowning in confusion and sorrow. Sometime I feel like a stranger on this planet and I go through my life awaiting for my ride home. I feel like an abandoned child, sometimes confused of why I had to be here in the first place. "Why won't they understand, why don't they feel, how did it get this way,why is bad so good, why are the good made to be bad" are some of the reocurring echoes in my mind.

Then the wave of bliss. I know this is my choosing. And sometime I am at peace with the fact that I cannot fix everything. I can work on me, and I can do my part in healing those who are open and I love that. I have loving, beautiful happy people around me and that fills me up and keeps me going. Because sometime I want to say Fuck This and sometime I do, then I remember my purpose or am reminded by the beautiful ones.

A great reminder and energizer for me began on Monday. I started to teach dance and empowerment to 100 students ranging from the age of 8-12. They are from all backgrounds. I dance everyday for 5 hours straight, well with a 45 minute rest. Children are so full of life, so full of innocence and excitement. They are so ready to learn and experience something new. They inspire me so much and I strive to be more like them. They don't take life so seriously yet they learn and continue to grow while we grown folk push the harshness of the world on them. We want them to be successful or what we think is success. "Stop playing so much, get serious, stop being so silly." Is there a way to be successful and learn the lessons of life without takng the joy away? We should be more like them not make them be more like us! Love, play,learn,be excited about life for no reason at all but just because you get to live it. We will have all we need. There is no need to have fear. We can live our lives, we can be disciplined and focused without being stressed all of the damn time, without being tense,worried and uptight. It is possible.

I am a healer, I work with adults and children and I have a hard time coming to terms with those who do not understand this. Someone who knows the work I do told me that there may be a conflict with me doing children's programs because of the coaching I do and because of this blog. They said the parent's may have a problem with me being so open about sex. What the hell! Somebody was having sex, they all have children, and believe their children are doing it too and some shape or fashion or someone is telling them all about it. So this really pissed me off and also saddened me.

It's not like I am pushing porn or any other perverted form of sex. Actually when I teach children I don't talk about sex unless the age group is appropriate. (well to me all ages are appropriate, but not all agree and their children are in my care and I respect their decisions). I advocate the sacredness of sex. It is not bad or nasty but have been made this way by a ill world who wishes to control the power of the masses. It has been poisoned and I only wish to help in restoring the beautiful elixir to the people.

In some countries, children are being prepared as early as 10 years for their mate. Some are taught the art of love-making. How to please, the things to do and not to do, and how to prepare. We might as well face it our children are going to do it. If you try to keep it from them or tell them it is dirty or nasty or bad it will only become an obsession for them. It is a natural energy, a god given energy, the energy of love and creation. How dare we corrupt such a sacred thing. We are sick because we supress and repress this powerful energy. We fight beauty. Repression does not free us of anything. Learn how to make love. Learn sex and how to have it, because what we are doing currently is nothing compared to what we could be doing. Teach your children the beauty of sex/love. Then it will not be so taboo. Maybe then we wont have so much perversion to deal with.

What I do

2009-06-30T10:57:00.000-07:00

Some have confused what I do as a cover up for prostitution. We have gone so far away from who we are, from our natural energy that everything sexual is perverted. Even nakedness is perverted. We repress and supress our sexual energy so much that it has become an obsession. It is perverted and poisoned. I only seek to empower, and help all those who want to appreciate and live in the beauty of this God Given gift. More Sermons coming this week :)

What is relationship and sensual coaching?• Personalized information and education
• Redirective cognitive process and mental reframing
• Emotional balancing
• Intuitive guidance
• Behavioral training
• Resources
What are my responsibilities?• To guide and direct you.
• To empower you to attain the dreams you desire
• To empower you to overcome any relationship or sensual difficulties you may have or fear you have.
• To help you reach your relationship goals and together find results that satisfy you.
What are your responsibilities?• To be on time for scheduled appointments.
• To pay on time
• To provide a comprehensive history on relationship
• To be authentic and share your truth with me.

What are the fees?Fees are $100/60 minute talk-only session and pro-rated for longer or shorter sessions. (more for couples) Payment is expected at the beginning of each session by postal money order or cash. For telephone or internet sessions payment is required via credit card via my website in advance. If finances are a problem for you a sliding scale fee and payment programs are always available.

How do sessions work?Most sessions are conducted by instant messaging. Some are conducted in person or by telephone. Most sessions are about an hour in length. Sessions can be scheduled for once a week, or less or more frequently depending on your schedule, my availability and your needs for coaching.

What about missing or changing appointments?There is a 24-hour-advance cancellation policy. If you fail to cancel or reschedule within that time frame a 50% charge will be asked of you for the missed appointment unless in extreme circumstances.

What can you expect?
This type of work can be transformational for your whole life. You can expect complete confidentiality. By trusting me to be your guide, you will grow, learn, and become a more empowered person. Thank you so much for choosing me as you’re your coach. It is always my honor and privilege to go this work.

Sun Sex

2009-06-16T10:49:00.000-07:00

I am sorry to have neglected this space. I was becoming familiar with other things like facebook. I don't think all of my racy escapades are appropriate there so I will save them for you.

Anyway, my love has been making me a morning person. Meaning making love in the morning or when the sun is shining and high in the sky. At first I fought this because I love making love in the light of the moon and I am such a night owl.Well I'm slowly becoming a morning person hehe.

I found that the energy has actually been higher for me, making love with the sun beaming on us. I love seeing his naked sweating body and he loves seeing mine. I love the fact that we can make love and still have time to do other things. I still love moon sex now don't get me wrong but sun sex has been so much FUN!! I also find visualization to be much more powerful for me under the sun.

So yesterday about 11am I am on the train and I can feel myself getting wet!! I am like so horny thinking about my man. I am meeting him at Lens Crafters and all I can think about was finding somewhere we can go real quick. LOL! I hate public restrooms so that was out and I didn't see any woods nearby. Damn!

So we take care of all of our business and I am like we need to go home in a hurry. He knew exactly what I was talking about. We finally got home and could barely get through the door before we started stripping and pulling at each others clothes. I used to think this was only in the movies.

The sun was beaming on us. The love was so powerful I felt drunk. I literally felt dizzy my hands were numb my body felt light as a feather. I was ecstatic. The energy of the sun, the mutual breathing, the visualization, the multiple orgasms and sounds took me in such a trance like state. I could feel nothing but bliss!! I mean pure bliss!!! I coulnd't help but giggle and move my body more and this threw me into another orgasm. I am lucky to have someone who knows and understands what a blissful trance looks like during sex. It could scare some LOL!

I was not drained afterwards neither was he. We had so much energy. Then came the storm. Lightening and thunder and pouring rain!! We brought the rain!!

Tell Your Story! Breakthrough...

2009-06-10T09:55:00.000-07:00

On my healing journey other women’s stories of success has often motivated me to go further. Being a survivor of sexual abuse I was often afraid to tell my story because of fear of rejection or feeling it would make me less of a person. I sought refuge in my writing. There I could make my healing a creative experience. In my writing I could be the most beautiful, the most sexual or successful woman even after being abused. I noticed in my creative writing pieces I was actually creating the woman I wanted to be and in some ways the women I have grown to be. I want to give other women that voice and creative space to create the women they want to be and share the women they have become.

Here is a chance to tell your story. I am now taking submissions for stories and poems for my up and coming book. Share your stories of what you have endured through abuse. Share your stories of how you made a breakthrough from rape, sexual, physical,emtional, or self abuse into being blissful and orgasmic. Use this to speak out against abuse as well. Breakthrrough!!!

Send all edited submissions to freelifeassociation@gmail.com. (women and men)For any further questions feel free to contact me there as well.

Sex Rituals

2009-06-01T10:33:00.000-07:00

I am interested in knowing how you all prepare for sex/lovemaking. I would love to start a dialogue about this. Leave your stories in the comments secttion.

I know for me it is very hard to have sex in clutter or a place that smells bad. Before I make love, if the situation or time allows, I make sure I smell good, I will make the bed if I am doing it there (it never stays made)I will make sure the room smells good and I prepare music.I like to prepare my partner as well.Besides foreplay, I make sure his hands are clean and he smells good. Now this does not happen all the time because we are to hot to do all that or no where near a bed :)

Please share!! Or share what you would like to happen.

Spontaneous Affection

2009-06-01T10:26:00.000-07:00

I was walking with my love to whole foods the other day and I was having one of my act/feel crazy period days. it was a beautiful day but all I did was complain and think about how others are doing things to piss me off and that they need to get their stuff together.

All of a sudden he stopped and grabbed me. I'm like ah damn what now. What is it that is going to get on my nerves now. He gave me the biggest hug and kiss and said, "I love you babe."

This was enough to snap me out of my negative disposition and bring me back to the moment where so much beauty lies.

Make Me Feel Good (You Better)

2009-04-28T09:50:00.000-07:00

I talk a lot about women getting the pleasure and satisfaction they deserve in their love life. Your partner is a tremendous help in this process, but it is up to you to find the pleasure and satisfaction. You can not lay there and wait for him to bring you to orgasm. If you do that you cannot blame him for your lack of fulfillment in your encounters.

I know some of you lay there like "ah man he aint doing it right, another night no orgasm, here we go, what is he doing, I'm tired of this, he aint doing a damn thing." Or sometime we even want to rush to the orgasm.

If you are laying there waiting for your man to bring you to orgasm and you are giving him any energy, what do you think is going to happen? he wants to feel good as well and he does that by knowing you feel good. Get into it and i guarantee you will fell something. Make it fun, Make sounds, Touch him. Watch how his energy changes.

If you come to love with a selfish, demanding or defeating attitude the love will not flow.

Something Smells Fishy

2009-04-20T13:36:00.000-07:00

Smells are very important for woman's arousal, but some of you fail to realize that smells are also important for men. Ladies please keep your coochie clean! The last thing a man wants is to be all excited and want to taste your sweet flower and he goes down and the flower smells like a rotting fish! Do you know how quick he will become limp?

A lot of woman use douches, sprays, lubricants, creams, perfume and on and on and on to keep the coochie smelling fresh. These toxic, unnatural products actually make you smell worse in the long run. They affect the coochie's natural ability to become wet as well. They are one of the causes of chronic yeast infections and other problems in that area.

The best cure for stinky coochie is simple. Change the way you eat. Keep unnatural products away from her and keep nasty penis' and other things out of her.

Please do not spray perfume on your coochie.

If you have issues with arousal and think a cream will help, think again. Short term maybe, long term you gonna have a stinking, sick, unresponsive coochie. I know someone who actually burned their coochie using an arousal gel. There are natural things you can do. And be very cautious about products that say natural ingredients or all natural. This could mean one ingredient in the list of 500 is natural. Stop poisoning the coochie.

Men actually like a pretty coochie that smells clean and fresh naturally.

Are you stressed? Your coochie smells like it. Our bodies try to find any way to release toxins. Stress causes sickness. It causes you to eat the wrong things and your body wants it out. The coochie will most likely be a way in which your body will release those toxins.

A sick coochie can really make you feel bad about yourself. It can make you feel less feminine, less sensual and completely unresponsive to sex.

Contact me for a consultation: freelifeassociation@gmail.com

Birthday Manifestations

2009-04-14T18:14:00.000-07:00

Today was my birthday. I will celebrate always. My gift to myself is to manifest my dreams and ambitions. To cultivate more love and loving relationships.To open to all blessings, whatever form they may come. Doing all these things I will be living life to the fullest.

This year I have been blessed with the mate of my prayers. I put it out to the universe exactly what I wanted in a mate and I got it. My birthday wish is to be what I expect him to be for me. My wish is to see all of my other intentions come into fruition just as this one.

I am grateful this day and everyday. I am humbled by the magnificence of love and the power of sensuality. I am thankful for the lessons I have received and being able to share them with you! I feel blessed to be able to honor you.

Snippet from a sexual makeover

2009-04-14T08:48:00.000-07:00

Questions/concerns from "SexuallY Liberated." Makeover done on gmail chat. My responses not shown.

I feel I need to cultivate a "liberated sexual experience" for myself

I’ve had 2 sex partners

I want to have sex, good sex, but there's blockage when it comes to actually having sex

Like, the idea of being "sexually responsible" turns off my interest. Like if I have to use a condom I must not be that into them

It’s going to take time for me to find my sex space that's all mine

I want to do more sensual stuff, ever since your blog, I really have been touching my skin more, smelling flowers, etc

I feel like there's so much I don't know
like I wanted to know more, do more with my partner experiment, read all the sex books, but I was not confident in initiating it b/c I felt he wasn't interested anymore

I was feeling like I should have done more, been more interesting, lalala

Don’t know when/how I got like this
I think for so long, I thought something was wrong with me
I think it's only recently I stopped thinking I was like sexually retarded for not having more sex partners

I really have never thought of that, and so I called this guy I thought could be a "fuck buddy"...lol, funny just saying that
and when I heard his voice on the phone, it was like NO! lol,
that was just a thought!

Definitely think my religious upbringing and trauma of being so heavily monitored by the whole church affected me a lot

I always wonder what would have happened if my first love was my first
and we just stumbled along together, not knowing

Definitely want to explore more,
Wanted to do more meditations, learn more about tantra, and breathwork and chakra openings with different positions

Wanted to do more foreplay, have candles to see
Do lots of stuff that wasn't just penetration, but like I said, I didn't initiate all these things

I thought about it, mentioned it, but often we'd be squeezing sex into the 25th hour of the day
so, penetration beat our all the foreplay

yeah, I know, you're right, and that's what I wanted, but I thought I was being "supportive" by not pressing the issue
like I was "Respecting" his schedule, his work...and on and on

he seemed surprised when I told him I felt we had sex when he wanted to

that's what was so hard to talk about

all the things you saying are doable
sure, but he gotta want to do it

and I wanted him to want it, so I accepted anything
yeah, and not be afraid
me: and then you wont except less
right!

yeah, I resented that he always got his

all this stuff I have to say, to claim

yeah, I am sacred and I always want to be honored as such

me: you will get what you want and need

Sermon 13: Being selfish is a sin!

2009-04-13T07:36:00.000-07:00

In the last blog I mentioned sexually selfish men and I wanted to elaborate on this. Now I am a big promoter of women taking control of their own ecstasy, but I have to admit some of you men make it real hard sometime.

Now men if you are doing some of these things that I will mention you need to stop right away. I have talked to numerous women who have told me that the man was all about his pleasure. He did not know the first thing to do, and when he came it was all over.There she was laying there unfulfilled, frustrated, sore and probably feeling used.

Now ladies most of us have had men who swear he is doing his thing and he would even say it "I'm the man, I tore that stuff up, I worked it out, I did the damn thing, I wore her out......" And you in your head are saying "what planet are you on."

Men, tearing it up are not necessarily what you want to do unless your partner likes it rough. Here are a few things you can do to ensure you are not committing a sin.

1.No Jack Hammering(going as fast and as hard as possible to rush to your ejaculation even when her coochie has dried). Be receptive to how she likes it. Watch for signs.

2. Learn some methods to retain your ejaculation and turn it into more energy and power, to work her out and benefit you in your life. Don't leave her hanging. If you just couldn't help it you have fingers and a tongue or whatever you all choose to use.

3. Don't rest your complete body weight on her and smother or hurt her. we are fragile sometime.

4.Take the time to pamper her, tell her she is the finest woman in the world. Foreplay starts before you get in the bed or wherever you do it.

Please feel free to add to this list in the comments section. If you are doing this, or need help to help your man get over it you need a "SEx MAkeOver." Get with me.

Let us Pray: Help us to know how to share our love. Show us the way to give selflessly all that we are and to receive with an open heart. Give Thanks!

Sermon 12: You could fake it...but why would you?

2009-04-11T09:16:00.000-07:00

I have talked to a number of women who fake orgasms because they want to get it over with. They want to satisfy their partners and give him "some" so he won't go astray. They may not want him to think she is frigid. There are a number of reasons women do this. I have been there as well.

I say if you are going to do it you might as well enjoy it. And although your partner may get off, the energy from the real thing as opposed to faking it is different. Men love a responsive woman. If you are truly enjoying yourself he will want to please you more and more. They really do want to please us sexually. Well there are sexually selfish men but that is a subject for another blog.

So if you are there having sex and your whole being is like I wish he would hurry up and come it is more than likely your body is going to respond that way often. It is not all about him knowing you are faking (because women are great actresses)but you wanting to reap rewards in this sacred act as well.

One of the keys to enjoying is becoming present. Another is knowing what feels good to you, another is be sexual, by fantasizing,feeling sexy, and telling your body it is receiving pleasure.

There are a number of ways to do all of the things I mentioned and many techniques to "get yours."

By the end of the month I will be launching "SEX MAKEOVERS" where I will be helping men and woman with things presented on this blogspot turning up the fire with your partner, how to attract a partner, how to inspire,heal and create through sex and more! Stay present to get your sexual makeover. Stay tuned for free consultations (limited time). Visit www.drippingbliss.webs.com. Hope to hear from you soon!

Love Lotion

2009-03-17T08:57:00.000-07:00

Did you know that a man’s semen has regenerative properties for your skin? Next time, don’t be so quick to wipe when he releases all over you. Welcome it. Not only can it do great things for your skin, it can also be very erotic and turn the both of you on even more. His seed will not be wasted but put to good use.

Another great use of the semen is the absorption of its energy to feel alive, rejuvenated and to have a sexy fountain of youth. This is a spiritual practice as well because you are not just receiving the properties of the seminal fluid onto your body, but you are getting sexual energy which is the greatest most powerful energy that can be used to change EVERYTHING.:)

The seminal fluid of the man carry the most nutrients of the ejaculate, the sperm is the restorative or creative element. You can use this love lotion on your breast, on your coochie and anus for restoration, you can even use it on your face.

It is important to note that you should not use just any fluid on your skin. Especially in the case of absorption you want the highest level ejaculate. You want your partner to have a clean diet, free of junk foods, too much dairy, and meat. Fresh fruits and veggies make a powerful elixir of love lotion. It would be nice if he also practiced daily exercise and/or some form of meditation qui gong as this makes for great sexual energy. The love vibration between the two of you is very powerful and will bring powerful release.

Diet and hygiene are definitely important sensual factors in this practice. His fluid should not have a foul smell. If you are releasing him orally, when you are done you should not be able to smell funk on your lips.
It is also important to not be selfish in this act. When a male ejaculates he loses a large amount of energy. You want him to conserve and use that for other great things.

For more info on how to use male fluid or techniques to help your partner avoid depletion and fatigue of ejaculation look for my upcoming book or call for consultation coming soon.

I hate pubic hair, today i didnt wear panties, my pants are to big

2009-02-26T13:25:00.000-08:00

I have been doing raw for a lil bit and my pants are already to big! I had to punch new hole in my belt.

I let my pubic hair grow to much. I never use to shave. I used to brag about the bush and furthermore I thought razors were so intrusive, but the first time I did it (very carefully I might add) I liked the outcome. My coochie was extra soft and I enjoyed touching her. Now I like to keep the hair off but I let it grow too much this time and it took to long to shave and it was a big mess! uh! :)(read in my upcoming book ways to keep your coochie supple and clean)

So today with my newly shaven yoni I decided to go panty less. Feels free.

Sermon 11: Coochie Wars

2009-02-26T12:55:00.000-08:00

Competition, jealousy, envy, gossip etc. are epidemics in the way women relate with each other. I would like to know more reasons for this. Please leave your comments and experiences.

I have learned to and continue to learn to take lessons for life in many different things. Some of them could be considered very small, like the way an ant moves or some of them can be monumental events. I watch the way children operate with each other. They can have what they feel are the worst fights, swear they are no longer friends, vow hatred, all that and within an hour they are devotionally in love with their friend again. They do not hold on to those grudges. They easily forget, well forgive and they are on to the next thing.

This is very difficult to do as an adult. We hold on to things forever. We never forgive our friend of 20 years for not inviting us to that big party. We can say “we cannot be like children and just let things go, our stuff is on a larger scale”. Well who says? Being called a baby or stupid by that child’s friend or not being played with because their friend that they always play with has found someone else is very hurtful to that child.

A story I would like to share. I am going out on a limb here. I know this may cause much judgment because we as women hate this.

Anyway, many years ago I had a relationship with a married man. I rationalized to myself why it was right. I loved him and so on. I have to say this was the biggest mistake in my life. I am not saying he was a bad person, but I hurt many people and ruined a friendship. It took a lot for me to forgive myself for this and not hold on to the judgments thrown at me from others and myself. I had to let go and realize that that event in my life, what I did was not who I was. But it was this time that I learned a great lesson in forgiveness and unconditional love. I had not forgiven myself but the very woman I betrayed had. She hugged me and told me how beautiful I was. She helped me when I was sick. She helped me and my children get around and worked to continue a friendship with me. I could not believe this and felt I did not deserve it. I was so paranoid that she was going to try to get me back somehow, or that karma would surely knock me on my ass one of these days. But it wasn’t that. She was making conscious efforts to continue to love and forgive me in a circumstance where it is seen as the ultimate betrayal. In her moment of forgiveness she was as pure and free as that child. I am grateful to her because she helped me to heal and mature because of her maturity and growth. Because she was able to see the divine in me she handled the situation with love and I know that had to be hard as hell. Now I am able to help others.

I am not saying allow anyone to abuse you. What I am saying is we should not live in resentment and hold grudges. I am not saying you have to hang out with the person who hurt you but let go of that hurt and find away to not see the person as bad or whatever other names we may have for them.

A lot of times when we have been hurt we hurt in return. In the instance of affairs we may see ourselves as not being good enough so we go into competition or trying to be that woman we are not just to please. Some of us try to get every man just to see if we can. We are catty. All this is unhealthy. How can we heal when we hold on to all of this contempt? How can we heal when our acceptance of ourselves comes from who you are outdoing?

Please share your stories and insight you may have in the comments section on why the coochie wars are raging the way they are (men and women) and any ways we may be able to come to peace.

Let Us Pray: help us to know our own divinity and beauty. Help us to see it in others and be at peace with which we are, growing learning and loving .Give thanks!

Sermon 10: Breaking Through (my story)

2009-02-11T12:08:00.000-08:00

So I think it is time to tell my story. Well a short bit of it anyway. I don’t this for pity or to express any poor me feelings. I do this to show my triumph and my continuous triumph and growth. To let people know that we really do go through similar things but there is light when you decide to come out of that darkness. Also people seem to relate to the pain. It draws people in more, makes them become that more interested. Why is that? There is a lot of healing to be done. I don’t have all the answers and I am still growing and learning every day. However I do know what has worked for me and countless others. My wish is to share this with you all and maybe what I share can spark your healing or give you good information and enjoyment.

One of my former clients once said to me, “what do you really know about what I’m going through. You are so young, you’re happy, sexual. You are always talking about this in the moment thing, but you don’t live my life!”

So here is my story…I was not always happy, orgasmic and able to live in the moment (still working on the moment thing). I was miserable and insecure from blocks that I had not or didn’t even know to heal. These blocks included the root pain from childhood. Being physically, sexually and emotionally abused left scars deep within my body that came out as insecurity and hopelessness. I was depressed and excessively shy. I was always anxious to talk to people. As an adult I would have tantrums. I would curse my partners out and fight. I didn’t trust anyone. Someone once told me you are so sweet but then you turn into a maniac. He said you’re as gentle as a bunny but can be as vicious as a pit bull. I felt so low and I always thought my partner would leave me sooner or later. I was always on the defense. “What is that supposed to mean” was my favorite thing to say. Or “why don’t you just find someone else. I would shut down easily and revert into my little shell I thought was protecting me.

I wore so many masks. I was very popular in high school and seemed happy but I was in agony. I went through so many extremes to completely covering and dressing like a boy because I didn’t like my body to dressing excessively sexy. I began having sex. My first time was awful. It hurt and I felt guilty. It didn’t get much better over the years. I thought sex was for the male enjoyment only. I didn’t even know I was supposed to have an orgasm. At 18 I had my first child. “Oh so that is what sex is for, having babies and for him to get off,” I thought.

I would do all of the things I thought I should do, or the things I saw in the movies. You know all the movements and moans, sex actually became a habit and I wanted it even though I didn’t enjoy it. Also I learned in my healing and breakthroughs that it was a way for me to feel like the person wanted me. And a way for me to show them, if I didn’t they would think less of me. It meant they liked me more. My coochie was always sore afterwards and I would put a hot wash cloth on her to help.

I heard an older female family member talking on the phone about her wonderful orgasms. I was like so I am supposed to do that too! I thought the only way I could do that was through masturbation. (I was taught to do that at an early age about 8 yrs). I started talking to other women who were having orgasms ans enjoying sex. Then I was with someone who told me to “make it feel good to me.” This was great advice, and we were so young.

My story goes on, homelessness, unhealthy relationships; more abuse a lot of it towards myself, etc. etc. etc. Unfortunately this is the story of most women and some have gone through worse and have not been able to heal, don’t know how to heal and don’t know they are supposed to heal.

Before my healing and breakthroughs I had glimpses of happiness. I have had some wonderful people come into my life and tell me I don’t have to live in pain. I began to tell myself this has to change, all of it. I was trained in meditation and qigong, breathing many healing arts and began to feel a release as I applied what I learned to my life. I began to feel my beauty and my self-esteem began to rise. However I still wasn’t orgasmic. “Okay” I said,”this isn’t going to work. I am too fine and too sexy not to be orgasmic or not to have orgasms when I am with men, and I love being with men. (I only had them with masturbation)I give my all so I deserve to feel ecstasy."

There was obviously more healing to do and I dived into myself. I did do a lot of studying and research on sexual health and spiritual sex, countless hours of this. It didn’t matter how much I read and studied. It didn’t matter how many techniques I knew. (Even though they help) I had to make conscious efforts and be honest with myself. I had to go within and feel all of the pain, all of the agony all of it and realize what it was and release. I had to let go of shame. I had to know I deserved to be happy in every way. And let me tell you that first orgasm was like the greatest confirmation of my growth and I was proud.

In those things that I went through I realized they were not me. They did give me strength however. I am here. I have been blessed to come into love for myself and others. I feel it is my responsibility to share and to help where I can, so others may feel this great bliss as well. Thank you for allowing me to fulfill this.

I leave you with what I was told years ago. “You do not have to live in pain”. Adversity does bring strength but you can see it for what it is. Be strong and happy. Realize your power and the power in this moment, relax and don’t let the adversity make you a puppet.

There will always be people in your life that will remind you of that old person you were. They will try to discount your growth, your triumph. It doesn’t matter. You are here, beautiful and whole.

Let us Pray: We give thanks for every opportunity of growth. We give thanks for the love and the healing that we can invoke in every situation. Help us to know our power and to see the power in others. Help us to break free from the chains that hold us captive to pain and our inability to see, know and feel our self worth. Give Thanks!

Sermon 9: Sounds of Power

2009-01-30T13:44:00.000-08:00

Saying a word releases a physical vibration. These vibrations can be associated with the meaning of the word. Intentions behind these words can also have an effect on the energy felt by the word vibration. This is the same with sound without words. Sound has a powerful effect on our energy vibration. This is clearly seen in how we respond to music. The use of sound healing, mantra, chanting etc. are used at times to bring us to a higher level of vibration and to change vibrations and events around us.

Intent behind a word or sound, I think is very important. Look at the word “fuck.” This word can be used to degrade or it can be used in the most intense times of love-making. Some people can be reluctant to use the word because of all the negative ways it has been used. This one word is used in so many ways with so many different intentions behind it. It can arouse many pleasant sensations and allow sweet nectars to flow, or it can arouse anger.

I say all of this to say that your sound or your words can be the sweetest gift you can give your partner when you are intertwined in bliss. A lot of us take for granted the power of sounds in lovemaking. This can be the difference of the yoni dripping or just slightly wet. This can be the difference in how intense the thrust are, how deep and passionate. This can be the difference in level of orgasm. This can heighten confidence in your experiences and is a great way to communicate with your partner.

If you are quiet she may not think she is giving it to you the right way. If you are quiet and just lying there he may think he is not treating the coochie the way he is supposed to. If they are not, DON”T FAKE IT. Like I said this is a great way to communicate. So if you are a usual screamer or moaner, if he is not doing his thing and you are too afraid to tell him, just be quiet, hehe. No, it’s better to tell him or her so you will not have to endure those unpleasant feelings until they “are done.” Open communication is best.

I tell my partner that his sounds are my favorite things to hear in the whole world. My pleasure is intensified whenever I hear his. Some men are afraid to release their sounds because they don’t want to be looked at as a punk or feel foolish. Women go through this as well. Releasing your sounds in your pleasurable moments is not only great for your partner but can be healing for you as well. You are able to savor that ecstasy without fearing judgment. This can anchor you in the moment. You are able to release things like stress. Your spirit will be able to rise to unknown heights.

Let us pray: thank you for this gift of words/sound. Let us use this gift wisely and compassionately. Let us use our sounds to give and receive immeasurable earthshaking pleasure. Show us how to use this to heal our coochies, to heal the penis to make us aware of the power in every sensual moment. Let us use it to heal dysfunction and pain and send vibrations of love throughout. Give Thanks!

I Like It Raw

2009-01-26T09:36:00.000-08:00

I finally did it! I went raw and I like it. I let go of apprehension and just did it. I have no decadent guilt. It feels so free. I am happy that there is no longer any fear in taking it raw. My ecstasy is greater and my juices flow more intensely.

What are you thinking? I am talking about my diet. I am now only eating raw foods. I eat no cooked or animal products. I was vegan for ten years. This is my third week of being on a raw diet. I already notice the difference. I feel so light and even more feminine. All sensations are greater. And I am sooooo horny! My yoni(vagina) becomes wet out of the blue. I have always gotten wet but now it is more and more often. I smell differently and taste differently. I feel so sweet. I feel like a flower. This is only three weeks!

Before I went raw I did an extensive detox. During this I also went through an emotional cleansing. Everything was a big deal. This is important because all or most of the things that gets locked in our bodies through our habits and life can come out. Everything is connected. So by doing a detox of my body my emotions also were cleansed.

Our health has a direct effect on our sexual ecstasy. Not only bio physically but psychologically as well. We all know if we are feeling heavy or guilty about something we ate or gassy we are not going to feel sexy. You are going to want to make love with the lights way out, or with that shirt on, or you will decline riding this time.

There is so much to be said on this but the lack of time and space I will not do it here. Look for it in my book. In the meantime, do some research. take small steps in improving your sexual health. Just eating more fruits and veggies and less sweets, starches,dairy and meat can make your yoni sweeter and juicier. Someone told me that after they got a colonic they could feel there clitoris and labia pulsating. They had never felt that before. The way you eat or what you eat could restrict blood flow to your genitals and leave you hanging, literally and figuratively, men and women.

You should take your sexual health seriously. Your libido or lack there of. Your ability to orgasm or enjoy sex. Your wetness or erection or lack there of is saying a lot about your health. Don't ignore it. And you can fix it the natural way!

Just Talk to Me

2009-01-08T08:25:00.000-08:00

Have you ever been near orgasm with just the tone of a voice? Or let me take it a bit further, have you come to a climax by just the use of words? No touching, nothing to see but what you can imagine. You haven’t even touched yourself, well not your genitals anyway just some winding of the hips.

For some this may seem so far fetched. You know, we take so many things for granted, not realizing the pleasure that can be had in “simple” things. We all know that the way we express ourselves is very important. Most of the way we do this is verbal. Every tone change can mean something different; it can put us in a totally different mood. You can be happy one minute, but let somebody say something you do not like and like a knee jerk response you are angry and full of resentment. Ten people could have told you that you are beautiful and you are feeling all y and confident, then one person comes along and tells you that you are not so attractive and instantly or even your confidence fades. You have to look extra hard in the mirror to see your beauty. Why is it that we hold on to the negative easier than the positive?

We see how powerful talk can be. Be conscious of how you use language and tone. It can make a world of difference. Now this brings me back to my original question. Have you ever been so aroused, so ready to burst that you actually did just that by what someone has said to you or by the sound of their voice? I have, and it was one of the most pleasurable experiences I’ve had. I assume that I was so open to this because I have been consciously paying attention to the moment and allowing myself to feel and take in all of the sensations, pleasant or unpleasant. I mean this wasn’t some phone sex line if that is what you are thinking. Well, let me tell you about it…

I was on the phone with my love. It was really late or really early after 1 a.m. and the love was flowing. He was telling me all of the things I wanted to hear complimenting me and such and I was telling him. We were exchanging lovely genuine dialogue. His voice was deep and milky smooth. Everything he was saying was sending chills up my spine and making me cross my legs as I lay and listened to him.

Our conversation became a little more intense to say the least; I’m guessing he could feel my heightened arousal at this time because his talk became… ehem, very pleasing. As I lay there I noticed all I was saying was mmhm yes, yes mmm. Then I start arching my back and touching my skin. My eyes are closed and I bite my bottom lip. My moaning becomes more apparent now. I start rolling my hips and grabbing my sheets. I could feel this intense energy in my pelvic area. I continued to roll my hips around and around up and down. I decided then to see if I could move the energy up, so I visualized the energy moving up under my belly button. Oh my! I could feel all of the sensation I felt in my pelvis and genitals there. I move the energy up even further to the center of my chest. I feel vibrations, I move it up again to my throat, there it is pulsating, and it is incredible that I am actually able to feel the same pleasure here, but now it is more intense because I am in awe. Then I move the sensation to the center of my forehead and my moaning becomes more vigorous. Next the top of my head, now I am shaking, my entire body is illuminated with pleasure. My attention goes back to the genitals because, well, you can imagine what happened. The river was flowing. I mean I was vibrating and in pure ecstasy and hadn’t been touched. I wasn’t looking at porno or on the phone with some stranger making up stories to get me off. It was pure energy from his voice to all of my centers, purely orgasmic. I had an energy orgasm. Do you know about those? Well I will give you all of the sensual details. Stay tuned to my blog or even better look for my book coming real soon.

Sermon 8: Being (A sexy connection)

2008-12-29T12:15:00.000-08:00

Last night I found myself sitting in the midst of a huge celebration. It was much larger than what I had expected. I always enjoy being in the midst of so much because it gives me such a great opportunity to go into my sensual self and practice doing this without being distracted by the many things going on, but take it all as a sensual experience. There were so many different smells from all kinds of foods, from all kinds of people that got clean to come to the celebration. I notice the smiles and the pureness dancing around in the eyes of the young children whose canvas has not yet been painted on with the dingy brush of this world. There smiles warm my heart as much as the fireplace that blazes in the room warms my body. I watch the adults read each other. I notice every caress against my skin as another person passes me.

The sounds of drums fill the room and I cannot help but dance. The next thing I know I am in the center of the room with four other voluptuous hips. We move with the music with our eyes closed. When I open my eyes I am the only set of hips still swaying on the floor. I'm sweating; there has been an outbreak of poetry inspired by the release of dancing. There are screams and chants being released into the atmosphere.

The drummers take a break and I sit. When they come back so do I, then I decide to sit and watch. I notice how people come onto the dance floor slowly a bit reluctant, maybe wondering who is looking or who is judging. They move slowly at first, self consciously. Then there feet starts to hit the floor more passionately with the drop of a different beat. Now there hips get more into it, uh oh now the shoulders and the arms. Inhibitions began to fly with the arms and the eyes close and the head swings. They are fully taken now and nothing can stop the movement. There are no thoughts only what is happening right now. They do not care how they look or what comes out. Everything is ecstatic. The cells in the body celebrate. The heart contorts in pleasure.

What’s the sexy connection? The ability to just "be" is one of if not the most important things to do in your sexual experiences. Our mind keeps us from enjoying. You are thinking, and thinking. Hm...I wonder if my faces are sexy, I wonder if I try to hit it this way would she object, I wonder if I give it to him this way would I be the best he ever...So many thoughts that come and go.

We have to be like the souls on the dance floor but minus all of the self-consciousness. Move slowly at first warming up, then eventually letting those inhibitions fly like the arms or legs or booties or what ever will be flying. Allow yourself to be there in that moment, sexy, confident, and available. Don't think about how stupid you will think you sound if you moan that way. If you feel it let it out. Being is contagious. If your partner feels and sees you are into every moment, they also become more excited. Orgasm is like the dancer finally surrendering into the music; Free, blissful ecstatic, you don't feel the need to control.

There is power in that moment. There is power in you feeling every inch of his stroke, how it tantalizes every single tissue every crevice of your walls as he glides in and out. As you feel it, you can see it and that will make it even more enjoyable for you. There is power in you feeling her walls hug you tightly and cover you in her sweet juices that massage you as you glide in and out. There is power in the synchronization of your breath, in feeling that fire between you, and that comforting coolness. (yin/yang) There is power in the coming together of these two, circulating this energy, sharing it with your love. However, we cannot begin to do this unless we train ourselves to just be, right here, right now.

Let us pray: We are thankful for the beauty in this very moment. We are thankful for the lesson in each moment. Let us learn to let go and truly know the gift of being present, the gift of being who we divinely are, no masks no fronts.

Sermon 7: Surrendering

2008-12-27T19:23:00.000-08:00

Sometimes I get this annoying feeling that I always have to be doing something. If I am not I feel anxious and unproductive. I feel like the world is passing me by. I am on an island watching helplessly as it speeds gleely past me. I feel heavy and am in search for the next thing to do. What project can I start?(when I haven't even finished the last one I started when I was feeling this way). What person can I call on the phone? What book should I read?

These thoughts go on and on. My house feels like it is a mess and then I am like ok I cant do any of those other things until my house is clean. Then I am like wait I should just pray, then I will feel at peace, but wait I cant do that until my house is clean. Then after I clean my house of course I have to take a shower. I should dance or do yoga or maybe do an extensive work out, that would help me feel calm. So hm... should I clean first then work out then shower? Oh no before I do all of that I need to make that important phone call, actually I have like 5 people I need to call. Oh yeah but I have to pick up the children first. I will just meditate tonight before I go to bed. Now I am feeling a bit overwhelmed and angry because I feel I can't do everything. Next I feel guilty because I am feeling overwhelmed and angry at my own responsibilities. How dare I feel this way? How dare I be angry? Why am I so frustrated in the first place? Why can't I take on all the burdens of the world and still have all the energy and excitement and laughter that I feel when I am in ecstatic trance? I just need to do something then I will feel much better! I will just ignore all of those feelings drown them out by being busy and they will surely go away... They don't, instead I am irritated and snappy.

Just be quiet! Just be still! I hear my spirit shout. I try to ignore this as well. I will paint and I will feel better! I shout back. Then I am in tears the next minute and I am sitting on the floor still and quiet. My feelings are rising and I am led to breathe through them. Look at them, feel them. Surrender to my feeling of lack or anger or frustration. Embrace it with open arms, breathe and feel as it disappears. As I sit still as possible only my head bobbing from total relaxation and tears falling in my lap, I realize again that being still does not mean doing nothing, but as I am still a multitude of things are happening. I am healing, I am remembering, I am relaxing so I can do things with a clear mind, I am feeling a total bliss surround me and take me into the gift of surrender.

As I am quiet I can hear clear insight. I hear that I have all that I need and could ever desire right at my fingertips. Life does not have to be such a panicked rat race. I do not have to be the one with the most innovative idea all of the time. I don't have to be the one that writes the most profound words all of the time. All I have to do is live from the heart. All I have to do is remember love all of the time.

Of course when the roller coaster has shaken me up again and it finds its way to the point where I haven't remembered my insight; I am like ok I need to pay the bills. Is living from my heart going to do that. Is remembering love going to do that. I must do something! But the answer is yes. When I am doing those things I am always doing something and things always work out. This has been proven time and time again for me. Every time I stress and worry and get anxious, after everything is over I realize I didn't even have to do all of that. Everything worked out. All of that stress was unnecessary. I could have saved my body a potential illness and just be calm and realize everything is fine. I could have just surrendered to the moment. I could have payed attention to my feelings. I could have taken the time to relax even more to be even more clear on any actions that I needed to take. I could have had the faith that all is well, been happy anyhow. I could have realized I have nothing to fear.

Living here, in this society, it is so easy to become a basket case. It is so easy to get caught up in chasing money, being in competition, living in fear of not having, living in fear of someone or something taking what you have. Our bodies suffer. Our yoni's become stressed and don't even feel like getting wet. We don't even feel like being sweet. We have no energy to please ourselves or anyone else. Live a sensual life, take advantage of the moment, what is that! Give foreplay to my woman huh? I don't even have enough energy for those strokes.

We have no other choice but to realize and start to live in love, live from the heart, surrender to the moment, and know oneness. We have to taste, touch, feel, see hear, wholly and intently. We have to surrender to sensuality. Or Else!

Let us pray: Let us listen to the divine urge to live in love and oneness. Give us the strength to give up our fears to receive what you have promised us when we surrender to the natural cycles that exist. Give us the strength to surrender with all of our might so that we may see, hear, feel and have divine light drip from our crown into our mouths and off of our tongue spreading and sowing sensual seeds into the heart of the world. Give thanks!

A Sensual Destiny

2008-11-19T18:08:00.000-08:00

From here I hold the beauty of his reflection. How I long to smell this man. To taste him to touch him would be magnanimous. Just to feel his voice brush past my lobes. How I yearn for those blissful vibrations

Far away in space and time but my heart rest in his hands. How I want to dance to the beat of his heart on two feet or floating in the air, for thoughts of him send me soaring into the clouds. How long must I wait to live this moment? How do I stop my lips from pulsating longing for his warm kiss? When do I get to feel the one I’ve longed for since time began?
Too much time; is it a curse or blessing for I am going mad without his embrace. I just want to taste his joyful tears. And spend my years in his good favor. Is this to much to ask when I have searched and prayed endlessly for eons. For his very presence to be dripped from the heavens into my being shedding light unto my darkest nights and putting the taste of sweetness on my tongue once again.
No man can measure, for he is a god an angel a magical occurrence like no other. I desire the pleasure just to walk across his path leaving my scent of eternity across his nose so he shall follow behind and take me into eternity.

For I never want to leave the grasp of his love. It takes me up in spirals of oneness of ecstasy of might. Tonight I will cry in the bosom of my pillow. And dream about my sensual destiny w/ the god of my prayers. Chills leave their prints on my spine when I become entranced, anxious for his sublime presence. Who cares about worldly possessions when all I want are the gems from his spirit. I will it so I will see him tomorrow and burrow my head into his chest and rest in the comfort of my loves in breath. As I breathe out I send my wishes into the universe that this is not only hopeful thinking. But we will soon be one fulfilling our sensual destiny.

For my love far away but oh so near.

Sermon 6: How Do I Love Thee

2008-11-18T17:39:00.000-08:00

Ok, I felt I had to post this one. I am aware that there are some male members of the Coochie Church and I want to dedicate this one to you. It is not an attempt to bash, because as you have read in the last sermon I am not into that.

Men, imagine that the most beautiful goddess arose before you. She wore only jewels on her body and was dripping in glistening honey. Her breast pulsating and her legs look as if ready to wrap around you. Her eyes say take me and the scent from her was obsessively enticing.

As I can imagine you are ready to take her. You are ready to pounce, but she says, “Not yet, first you have to prepare me. And if I am impressed by your efforts then and only then will you be able to enter my temple.” What would you do? But then what if she says, “And when you enter me I want you to treat me like you know who I am (the goddess) and if you do you will be greatly rewarded. But if not you will be put to shame!” Would you shy away from the challenge or would you learn what you need to do?

Well men, I have to tell you, this is what women are saying all of the time. Some of you just don’t hear us. Do you know how to read body language? If not you must learn to be more receptive. Yes, it is great for a woman to express verbally what she wants, and we must learn how to do that more often (some of us) but be real men, some of your egos get in the way. That is what women are afraid of. They are afraid if they tell you, you might become offended. That it may even take away from the intimacy, but their body language is speaking volumes.

So many men are being put to shame behind their backs because they think they are doing their thing in the bed, but are coming up short( not literally, some men know how to work what they have). They are bragging about being “the man” and how they tear it up and all that other stuff. While she is over talking to her girlfriend saying “girl it wasn’t all that. He swore it was but I didn’t have to waste my time.” Or some women even contemplate cheating to get what they need.

When was the last time you asked your woman how she wants it? I mean even before the act. Have you had an open conversation about it? When was the last time you were able to tell by body language what your goddess needed or if it was too much? A lot of the time if she is pulling away she wants something else. Just ask. Open it up so she doesn’t feel afraid to tell you.

Do you know how to prepare your woman? Scents, (this means your scent as well) sights, touch, sound, all of these things are important to a woman. Do you know what’s important to yours? A woman does not want to be the only one setting the mood all of the time. She would like you to make her feel special and wanted. Ask her to write you a letter telling you exactly what she likes and what she wants. Ask her how you can make the experience better. Draw her bath and light some candles, and if it is spontaneous or you are going to her house bring her a small gift or rub her feet. Treat her like you would a goddess. Touch her, lick her, and talk to her. Tell her how beautiful she is. Or some woman even like for you to tell her how you want to tear it up.

Do you know her erogenous zones? Get a woman open and any where you touch will become one. Do you know how to find her g-spot and what positions you can best reach it? Do you know how to keep her comfortable while you are making love? Does she like it freaky, kinky, or nasty or do you need to be very gentle? She may like all. Do you know when she says “DON’T STOP” that means don’t stop because you are in that spot that will bring her to her greatest ecstasy?

There are many books out there that will help you with the technicalities of a woman’s body. But you need to read the woman you are with as well. Do this, and your wish is her command.

Let us pray: help us to be receptive to each others needs and desires for we are here for each other. Give us the courage to ask and tell for the things we need so we will know how to make each other happy for you have given us the gift of each other, one of your greatest gifts that we must cherish GIVE THANKS!

Sermon 5: For Goddes Sakes

2008-10-27T14:58:00.000-07:00

More and more women are actively taking charge of their love for self. They are actively searching and growing into awareness of their Goddess within. Doing this, I believe, is vital if we are to have collective healing. The Goddess nurtures and guides. She heals and protects. She creates and destroys. She is a source of pleasure. She LOVES.

Tapping into the Goddess is extremely empowering. It is a powerful initiation into womanhood. It is the admittance to use her powers on this earth to bring forth the aforementioned. However, like any great power it can be abused. It can be misunderstood and not properly guided if we have not truly taken all of the steps to heal the many blockages we have built up over time. The goddess, in my opinion has to be an example of love.

I was motivated to write this blog because I have encountered many women who call themselves goddess. They are in a position where they can be an example for others to bring what we need in this world. Instead I have seen them being an example of separatist behavior or some kind of women supremacy with the guise of “woman power.” (I too have been guilty of this at one time). They have been bashing men and speaking as if “the men” are less than the woman or are the enemy.

We all have been hurt at some point in our life, men and women. Yes it is true that some men need to step up. They need to heal. This is also true for women. Women who have interest in tapping into to the goddess must heal their past pains and disappointments so their attempt to help will not be bitterness wrapped in a pretty or thought evoking, emotion stirring words that have the potential to bring more harm than good. Yes we have the potential to be all powerful Goddess’ and our men have the potential to be all powerful Gods. We have to help each other. We need each other. We must learn how to love each other again. As someone told me we all have our different ways of healing and bringing balance. She said she could come as a gentle wave or a tsunami. The thing is we have to heal and bring balance, and we have to know when we are bringing this or bringing the opposite. We all have our stuff. We need a cleansing, detoxing, something.

Let Us Pray: Goddess for your sake, help us to use your power wisely. Help us not to judge, but to see the potential for growth and be an example of such. Show us the most appropriate way to bring your messages. Let us not hold contempt in our hearts for our men or for our women but as we find the way, we can graciously show the ones who want to know. Give Thanks!

Dancing Sensually

2008-10-21T17:16:00.000-07:00

Belly dancing heals. I love the natural sensual and feminine charged movements. here is a clip of Queen Huney stirring a pot of sensuality

Masturbation: A Lesson in Sensuality

2008-10-21T12:58:00.000-07:00

Masturbation is a great practice in being more sensual. It is also a way to get to know your body, the spots that make you moan a little louder, what you may not like. This is always good that way you can tell your partner. I strongly believe that you have to know how to please yourself in order for anyone else to be able to do it. Women are responsible for their pleasure. Your partner is a tremendous help but you have to know what makes you feel good.

Masturbation can help you to have more appreciation for your body and its own beauty. You will begin to appreciate how it feels, how it looks, every part of it, how it smells, how it moves. Learning how to be intimate with you, in my experience can be one of the greatest healing experiences. It can remove blocks or negative thoughts that you may have about sex. It can remove low self esteem, and open the way to powerful orgasms. In combination with other things it has done these for me.

I didn’t always have the most enjoyable sex or orgasms. I liked the closeness and it was fun at times. I liked being with a man, but most of the time sex was for his pleasure. (They never knew that) hehe.

Then one day I decided that was it. Why am I not enjoying every bit of this experience? I did have clitoral orgasms with masturbation, but I wanted it all. I wanted to have an orgasm with a man inside of me. You know all the shaking, and moaning, eyes rolling in the back of the head type of orgasm. (Even though most orgasms are different) I am too fine and sensual not to be having orgasms. I deserve to be thoroughly pleased as well. So I went on a mission.

The thing is to have all of these benefits that I mentioned you have to take time. You can not just want to rush to the orgasm. You can not go to work relentlessly on your yoni (vagina) being impatient and harsh and expect results. Be gentle and loving, freaky and nasty if that’s what you like. But do not beat up on your self.

A few techniques which will be in my book are helpful and reminders to be the sensual you, savoring every bit of your experience.

1. Set the mood with candles, your favorite music, scents etc.

2. Take a nice sensual bath making sure to touch all of the crevices you have neglected

3. Look at your body in the mirror. Don’t be negatively judgmental, if there are things you do not like pass them or find beauty. Pay attention to the things you like and think how beautiful and sexy you are. Even do a seductive dance. Learn how to turn yourself on. (you will find ways in my upcoming book)

4. Lay down in your setting and touch yourself sensually. Think thoughts that turn you on. Think how sexy and sexual you are and will be. Get yourself real HOT. Use feathers and fabric, oils and lotions.

5. In my case I wanted to experience a vaginal orgasm so after I was completely boiling and wet I used a cucumber. Yes I was getting my veggies a whole new way! I moved it to all the spots that felt sensitive that felt good and kept it in those spots. Ah man in no time I was moaning louder and shaking uncontrollably. I felt empowered. I felt beautiful and sexual. I felt flirtatious and like a true goddess.

I can not go into it in great detail here but pleasing yourself can be the greatest gift you can give to you. It is a well needed and liberating journey into self love.

Straight from the Journal...experiences of the coochie, from pain to bliss from confusion to clarity, watch how it flows

2008-08-26T16:13:00.000-07:00

These are from my personal journal. We all need each other to heal and grow. Reading sermon 4 will also help you to understand why I posted this. Maybe you should read it before reading this. It is just an example on how we can use our experiences to heal and grow. It is different stages but we have to be aware of our feelings and be honest with ourselves. This is another example of living sensually. Be aware of feelings and sensations that you experience. Names will be withheld :) and some of the text in some entries.

1/8/unknown
We really need each other. I was feeling a sense of frustration, impatience, unproductively, loneliness and being under stimulated, spiritually and sexually. This was leading to feelings of anger and irritability as well.

I have been asking to be sent someone to connect with. Someone I could share my love with and not feel like it is being wasted (even though no act of love is wasted). Someone I can share a spiritual, sexual, caring connection with, someone to touch me and hold me.

""Nataka" is here. I didn't know I was going to get what I asked for so soon. We have always had this type of connection. I am happy and excited he is here. Lord knows I've needed it. He is more beautiful then ever and I feel so much love flowing through me. I am inspired and the other feelings I was having ceased.

I feel intense energy when we make love and all I see is divinity. Sometimes the "stuff" people have doesn’t seem to matter. When love flows all you see is their divinity. That is how it is for me. His "stuff" does not matter everything fuses into love and I just want to heal him and protect him and share with him and he do the same for me. I want him to feel happy and his worries dissolve into love.

I have gotten what i prayed for. I am grateful.

1/9/unknown

Feeling kind of ill today. Maybe a cold.

So its funny how we help each other along in our healing. How through each other we can see the things we need to clear out and the things we need to work on, or we see our own strengths.

In this time "Nataka" has been here I have experienced trust issues. I just don't want to fool myself in thinking that things are one way and they are not. I am like every other woman in wanting to be special or "the one." I am reconsidering the relationship thing. Will I have insecurities? Logically I know how to get over trust issues, how to give someone their own space, and let them have their own life while being with me. I realize that the energy they share with someone else is special and different in its own way, and so is the energy we share together. I just need to know that it is genuine. That it is not fake and I am not being used.

It is about having strength and confidence. I think as women we think that if he shares energy with someone else that it takes away from their connection. It is a fear maybe that the other is better or they may want them more.

---Loving you is like trying to catch a fleeting ghost
you leave only the scent of your apparition
reach out to touch
but then your gone
leaving only an eerie song
scary illusion
shocking conclusions
It's like making love to a mirage
was I only dreaming that you were here
so much to bear
Your footprints rest on my heart as I watch you walk away
A beautiful mourning of beautiful mornings, days and nights
when we would unite and the universe would stand still
in awe of our connection
somber reflections
of a joyous experience
Teary confusion
thank you for sharing your love with me
It was my responsibility
to nurture my emotions
and not entertain a roller coaster of notions
not really expectations
I just thought love would be more kind
was caught off guard
chose to be a little blind.
I think it is safe to keep you in the bosom of my fantasies
I could always enjoy these
without the pain of dim realities
Your beauty will always be dear to me
a magical occurrence to me.

1/12/unknown

Today I feel bliss almost too intense to bare I just want to pour all of my love on someone, some people. I want to give tight hugs and long kisses, smiles to make a day. Just realizing all that love that "Nataka" and I conjured up does not have to be exclusively for him. I can share it with so many (not sexually). I felt like I was going through mourning because I still had so much intense love flowing through me from our times. He left so what do I do now. He is supposed to be here so I can continue to pour it on him (this is what I was thinking. So we can raise more and more (it is so addictive). But No! He is NOT here to remind me to continue to spread it. Give it to those who need it. I have shared with him now others need it.

Our connections always have a purpose. I was feeling dim on love energy. He came, now I am full. At first I was heart-broken when he left, but that was necessary for me to shed that old pain and renew. I was hurt because I was like "Ok he is going to be with someone else right after me. He could of at least gave me time to linger."

With the new heart I was like "others need love too, and if they can be open to the beauty without control then they too will be energized and will spread it. It is like an angel sent to do a specific job and when thet are done they can leave.

Creativity is flowing, I am growing. This morning when I woe up I said I wanted to love someone who is more available, and I still do. However I know that people are placed into our lives for reasons. We may want to hold tight to them but the universe has other plans. They may not have the same effect on you or for you if they were there all of the time.

I don't know if he knows what he does for me or all I have been experiencing with hin here. I don't know if he left because he felt it was time, to spread love or for promiscuous reasons, and it doesn't matter. I know what his presence has done for me.

Thats all for now....

Sermon 4: Be Selective

2008-08-26T14:47:00.000-07:00

Everyone does not deserve to visit even the entrance of heaven. It is true that we should look to have more divine attributes like all loving, all knowing and so forth, however our coochie does not have too. And I mean this from physical standpoint. I know our portal(coochie) holds wisdom from many eons and I know she loves the world...I'm am talking about "giving up that lovin" and knowing all the shapes sizes and colors of every dick that do not honor, love or appreciate her gifts.

Yes, she loves the world and she has to cry for its sins against her on a regular basis. How many times have you been with someone and afterwards you felt empty? You may have had an orgasm or even multiple but you felt unfulfilled? How many times have you allowed someone to enter your heaven and all the while you had doubts? How many times you have you felt like you were just being fucked or like a piece of ass when you wanted a full sensual, loving, spiritual or committed experience? Have you felt tricked or manipulated? Most of us have gone through this or are going through it right now, women and men.

Taking control is easier said then done because you love so much, because you want to think the best, because you don't know how to say no, because you are horny. Conscious effort every time you are in the situation makes it better. Don't rationalize it if you really want to change it, like saying just this once, I need it. Or whatever you use. You deserve to be honored, you deserve to have what you want. Your coochie deserves the experience she wants and needs.

The good thing about going through those feelings is that they are wonderful healing opportunities. What can you learn, what can you do know. Every experience your coochie has directly affects your life. How, is your choice. Because of time and space I cannot dive in completely on how to use your coochie experiences for growth. In my book there are ways, and stay posted for workshops.

You have to be selective in who you allow in the temple. Some will just suck your energy (drink all of the holy water and not leave any tithe). You have to change the way you do things and things will change for you. You want our men to honor us, well teach them by honoring yourself. Then we may have more to select from.

A visitor of the church said he realizes this is for women and he won’t visit often. This is for men too. You also want to read this and apply. Some of the same principles apply. (Like being selective) You need to be honored as well. Who is going to start the ding a ling church or the penis church, dick church, lingam, phallus, something?

Let Us Pray: Give us the strength and courage to dismiss the things from our lives that bring us discontent. Bring that into our lives that wish to share love and abundance. Help us to see and make the right choices.
Give Thanks!

Sermon #3 Where Does Your Faith Lie?

2008-08-10T21:16:00.000-07:00

Well, "God" has made us in its likeness. Does this mean we have the ability to co create? Do we have the ability to create all things including all that we want with God? If this is so why are so many of us waiting for something "out there" to fulfill us, to give us happiness when it all lies in us.

This is the same question the coochie asks. Why are you waiting for someone else to give me fulfillment. There are a great number of women that do not experience pleasurable sexual experiences. They do not reach orgasm, or as one of the members of the coochie church said the 9, which are the various levels of orgasm. Some have not succeeded in the first.

Having pleasurable sexual experiences is a gift. But it is a gift that you must know you deserve, and a gift that you first have to give to yourself. There are numerous reasons why woman don't reach these levels, so it starts with the woman to clear these blockages wherever and whatever they may be.

We go along thinking that it is the man's job to make us feel good. The reality is, if you have blockages no matter how hard he works to bring you pleasure it is not going to happen. The coochie is saying, "work on me, tighten me up, eat right, heal from the past, touch me, stroke me, caress me. I am your yoni (coochie) let me tell you what I like so you can show others."

Having a knowledgeable partner is wonderful and it helps, it is ideal, but ultimately you are responsible for your own ecstasy. And if you happen to get someone who is not so well versed you can sweetly show him.

It is possible to be steaming hot before your partner even touches you, and when he enters you, you are ready to burst. However, men, this does not excuse you from foreplay. You also have to learn those spots that will send her to the edge. We are here to help each other.

Don't walk around with some blind faith, but know that you are going to get your bliss, can somebody testify!

Let us pray:We know that you have made us in your likeness and that our faith should lie in our abundance of power that lives in us. We thank you for sharing in your greatness and let us continue to feel and live in this. Oh Goddess, let us savor every drop of ecstasy. Open our hearts so we may see that we deserve it and we can give it to ourselves with the help of other co creators.
Give Thanks!

Sermon 2: How Do You Use Your Power

2008-08-06T19:11:00.000-07:00

Are you using the power of the Divine coochie for good or evil, to manipulate or heal. Are you using it for pleasure or pain.

We have been given this great power generator. Through our coochie we can gain power and give power. It is all about how we use it when we gain it. This society is more or less a dog eat dog, do for yourself type of society. Early on women learn how to "use what they got to get what they want." So you get women throwing their coochie around, leaving her as dirty as money exchanged from millions of hands. Throwing the coochie around leaves her a bit deranged and nervous. She feels displaced, almost like a foster child that is being moved here and there, never finding a real home. Then she will act out. You will feel her sadness, no matter how much you have, you will feel her neglect and bitterness.

Through her(coochie) power we do have the ability to get anything we want. We have the power to attract to us the greatest things. Just her allure makes people or even the universe want to put all that you desire right into your hands. The universe tells us that whatever we desire is out there for us to have. We do not have to use our coochies to trap or manipulate people. Through your relationship with the divine coochie connected to universe people will automatically be vessels for you to receive.

How do you connect you coochie to the universe? Well it is not hard because we already have that divine connection it's just about tapping into it.

Pay attention to her. Look at her. Pamper her like she is the Goddess herself, for by way of her life is given to this world. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Treat her as a vessel for healing and realization. Use her to renew, to repent, to save you of your sins and the sins of others. Know that whomever enters her will forever be changed and they also will become conduits of power. By doing this, you will always receive. But the thing is you are not just receiving, There will be a constant exchange. When someone enters into your coochie it should literally be heaven. Instead of feeling drained they should be able to come out feeling rejuvenated and ready to get things done. And you should feel the same way when they are in you. Together you both can generate enough power to get all you desire. Through visualization, affirmation, sound and genuine love.

Your power is your responsibility. Remember not all can handle her power. Watch who you whip ;)

Let us pray: Let us continue to know and walk in our power. Let our power exude from us leaving the scent of healing. Help us to bring pleasure and realization to the lives of others. Let us be rejuvenated by all that enters our coochie and protect us from that that does not have the best for our coochies in mind. Help us to see that our coochies (womb) are directly connected to you and through the health of her we can make our lives better in every way.
Give Thanks.

Coochie Church

2008-07-30T18:38:00.000-07:00

I am pleased to announce the opening of the church of coochie. This is where you come to get your daily inspiration to honor your Divine Feminine, your yoni,your vagina, your cookie,your coochie, your pussy, whatever you choose to call the sacred place. Come join the congregation of women and men to hear the word. And don't be afraid to testify, right in the comments section. Let us preach, shout, dance, sing, and pray healing into our coochies!

Are you committing sins against your coochie? Well come to the coochie church to repent and purify! Is your coochie happy with the way she is being treated? Are you giving her enough attention? Is she being deprived of tenderness? Is she being deprived of the gift of orgasm? Come for the word of how to do these things and a lot more. Come as you are, no judgements, the temple awaits.

Sermon #1:
Giving Honor to the Divine

Now let me ask, how many of you truly honor your yourself, truly honor your coochie and teach others how to do the same. Sometime we get so caught up in our day to day grind that we don't take the time to watch and see what is going on with her. We forget to listen to her needs.

How many times have you allowed someone to enter you that you weren't completely sure about? You did it just because you didn't want to say no. Or because you just need some sex real quick. Or you think maybe you will get over the unsure feeling and things will work. Maybe he will be more interested. For whatever reason, something is telling you no but you go along. That something is her, your coochie, saying "Please don't let him/it in. Does he truly care for me or does he need a quick fix? He needs to give me the attention I need. I need soft caresses and kisses. I need for him to be clean and receptive. Does he make you feel like a queen? Can he entice me into wetness, giving me a happy arousal?" Listen to your coochie.

Your coochie is very temperamental. She gets offended when you don't listen to her time after time. Her offense shows up in yeast affections,ST D's, fowl smells, and so much more. You don't want to piss her off! Can somebody say Amen!

Let us pray:
Give us the wisdom and heightened awareness to hear our coochies. Help us to remember our strength so we may only allow those in our space that honor us as the goddess. Remind of us of our power and divinity and be with us on our journey to a vibrant and honored coochie
Give Thanks.

River of Honey

2008-07-30T14:52:00.000-07:00

Bathe me in a river of honey
And let me feel your tongue all on me
Caress my wetness slowly
Sending vibrations through my body

Whisper my name in my ear
Sacred words that erases fears
Can you take me to another place
While we are here in this time and space

Light a candle
Make me see beauty with my eyes closed
There's no telling how far I'll go
The scent of arousal's in the air
The serpents rising
Can you take me there

The small of my back aches for your kisses
My nipples awaken...ooh I can't take this
Brush your stiffness against my gentleness
Yes now, you've found my weakness

Open me up
There's so much nectar running down my thighs
Can't you tell by the way I sigh
You can take me now you've got my trust
Wrap my legs, lift my hips and take a deep meaningful thrust

Deep enough to massage that spot
You know the one that makes me hot
Tantalizes, heals, and reveals
The goddess power and orgasmic thrills

let me hear your pleasure
As you give me pleasure
Your moans sound like chants
And my climax is enhanced

In ecstatic contortions no sensations did you miss
Now let me climb high and ride a cloud of bliss
A sensual rapture
How much sweetness can you capture

Stick out your tongue
Here I come
Now that you've got me where you want me
Just don't run

I'm seeing God in this deep trance
There's no limitations when we're doing ecstasy's dance

The First to be Unleashed

2008-07-05T16:34:00.001-07:00

I began by making sure every part of the space was clean. Then I cleared and sweetened the atmosphere. I sat loosely and sensually clothed in the dimly lit sweetly scented room awaiting his arrival. The smoke from the inscent danced to the soft music, spiraling gracefully, seeping into my body giving me healing thoughts. The dance moved into my belly and began an ecstatic motion.

The doorbell rang and the dance moved into my chest. It gyrated to the fast rhythms
of my heart. I opened the door and allowed him to enter. I felt his dance; more so, I saw it from his slight trembling. I greeted with a warm smile to let him know that all is well and he could release his nervous tension.

His eyes moved about the sensually comforting room and I could tell he was pleased. I allowed his energy to move him to a comfortable place to sit. I floated to my space and feeling his energy to quickly begin I directed him to close his eyes.

I began to lead him but soon realized he did not want to be led. He wanted release. In my attempt to guide him in a relaxing technique I became assured that talking would be all the release he needed right now. He stopped me short in my "breathe in" song. So we began my first coaching session.

As we went through our session I could see his weight lifting, his eyes became brighter and he became much more animated. He answered a lot of his own questions and became very proud of himself. He basically was telling me his need for sensuality in his life.

The urge to be happy, the urge to be fulfilled in every way is really the urge towards sensuality. We all want to live each day of our lives feeling good, feeling high, in the moment. We want to feel successful, we want to feel love and acceptance, we want to feel appreciated. All of those things give us a sensation. Paying attention to these pleasing sensations brings us healing. Having appreciation for these moments unleashes healing. This is living a sensual life.

My client felt appreciation in the moment and was able to feel healing. With the help of the scent and sounds, colors and an attentive ear he was able to savor the beauty right then and see how he could have it everyday. He really had unleashed his own sensuality while I observed. I just sat in as the Goddess sharing energy so he may come to his realizations. We all need energy to be shared. We need each other in our journey to sensuality and I happen to be blessed with the gift of the Goddess to hold this energy or have realized my power to help others unleash what they already have.

We have had other sessions each time more empowering then the last. Sometimes the sessions will just be a reminder to taste the beauty or they may used for rejuvenation.

We end by giving thanks to each other. He makes a vow to honor him and others in the journey and teach people how to honor him. As he becomes unleashed sensually he will share the gift.

sensuality in sex (bringing sensuality back)

2008-06-10T21:34:00.000-07:00

Sensuality and sex are different but they go together like a pea in a pod. Sensuality can and should be had in daily life, in everything you do. If you are living sensually you are in the moment experiencing and savoring everything in your moment.

You experience greater enjoyment from sex when you are able to be sensual. You don't have to be critical or judgemental, but giving yourself fully to the sensation of pleasure. You taste, smell, hear with a greater awareness and appreciation.

When you began to live sensually you cultivate gratitude and a greater love for the world. We all can cultivate sensuality. It is a magic that we all can master.

Learning how to be in the moment is very important in sexual encounters. So many times women do not find fulfillment from sex because the mind oscillates and they forget to relax and pay attention to the senses.

Pay attention to your skin, how that touch feels or how his skin feels against yours. Pay attention to the sounds of the moans. Make the room smell good and enjoy the scents. These things can seem so simple, but these simple things can be responsible for your intense mind blowing orgasm.

Take some time for yourself. Take a day to slow down. Stop and smell the flowers or look at the trees. How does the air smell. When was the last time you looked at the sky. Eat slower and taste every molecule. Take a bath and caress yourself with your eyes closed. Drink a cup of tea with your eyes closed.

Even in this busy world, we can always make time for sensuality. If you are sitting at your computer you can just softly caress your neck, face or leg, whatever is accessible. It only takes a second, but that second could bring you back into the moment, it can bring a smile to your face and heart and it can bring you enjoyment. No more excuses, get your sensuality daily.

sugar shock

2008-06-10T19:43:00.000-07:00

I have worked hard to be the sensual women I am. I truly pride myself with being a genuine, sweet, loving, warm hearted,orgasmic, and ambitious woman. Although I know there is much more growing and experiencing to do, I am happy with my growth.

Looking back, it has been an extensive process of self healing. Looking forward I am excited about sharing my experiences with other women so maybe they can also use my experiences for healing.

Learning self love his hard work. Your attitude changes. The way you see the world changes, and how you interact with other people changes.

One thing I found very disheartening is how others that may not have experienced this change fully reacts to people who have become self loving and comfortable with themselves. Or they have become so used to being or experiencing one thing that it seems like that is the only way.

I have noticed that when I interact with certain men, whether it is dating or talking on the phone or setting up sessions they cannot believe I am so sweet. They think it is a game or I am faking. (A good number of men love and appreciate it) I have heard "Are you always this sweet," or "Are you for real, no one is like this anymore," or "You are truly rare," or "Something is up, you have to be crazy or something, I am waiting for you to snap, no one is that happy."

Some men are really shocked to have, see and feel a sweetly feminine woman. There have been men that actually stopped talking to me because they thought it couldn't be true. It began to seem to me that men like for women to be mean.

I asked one of my good male friends why this is so. He told me that men are not used to genuinely sweet women. He also said that mean women pose a challenge for men, and we all know men like a challenge. But when they are in the relationship they do not like all the drama so would prefer a sweet feminine woman. He went on to say that most men do not like masculine women, they are too confrontational and competitive and they enjoy sex more with a feminine woman. People also have so many walls and guards around themselves and have trouble being open.

So this explained to me in a way why men go into shock when they experience all of this sugar.

I also notice that women go into a form of shock. It is called jealousy or envy. When women see other women that are comfortable with themselves, confident, sweet and loving they sometime feel jealousy or envy. (there are a good number of women who don't experience this) They see something that they wish they had, or may also feel the other woman is phony. You here things like, "Who does she think she is," or "She is not all that." Women even look for things that are wrong with other women to make themselves feel better. They sabotage each other, gossip, lie, betray and just are down right mean.

They don't realize they have all the same gifts as that woman that has found self love. We all are beautifully creative, luscious, sensual, delicious women. Some just have to remember.

When this breakthrough happens our Divine Feminine will be seen, loved and appreciated. We won't find so many ill people looking for their insulin shots, because the sweetly feminine woman will no longer be such an oddity. As the saying goes "Heal a woman, Heal a nation.

Sweet and Hot

2008-06-06T11:18:00.000-07:00

I have been thinking a bit about my fire and my sweetness. There was a time in my life where I was so fiery, I didn't know how to control it. I would curse and scream, fight and throw things, you know all that stuff we women do and justify it as being a warrior goddess. Then there was a time where I felt so sweet I loved everyone and everything, the smallest things made me cry and I had a hard time speaking my mind because I was afraid of hurting people or causing conflict. I just wanted everyone to be happy. So where is the balance. I pride myself with being a lover and warrior woman, or are they the same?
Warriors are focused and passionate. They fight to bring justice freedom and change, in turn this will bring happiness. They love intensely and exude and spread power.
I think woman confuse(at least i have in the past) sweetness for weakness and unchanneled anger and fire as power. We feel if we "go off" it will get our point across and its okay because that is just out sekhmet energy or Kali energy and besides they deserved it. Really by doing this you are destroying your own health and the vibrations around you become negative and distorted. You are not really channeling the energy of these warrior love nurturer goddesses but being detrimental to an environment of healing and progression.
I know now that there are ways to assert myself and still keep my spirit of love and sweetness. I know that I can bring an whole empire to ruin through my natural ability as a woman to be sweet, seductive, sensual enticing and calm. I know that this does not take away from me being a warrior goddess but this is her very nature and when it is truly time to fight in whatever form whether it is taking up arms or speaking, I can stand up and do it with no fear because i have preserved, focused and made my energy more vibrant.
We fight the wrong people. Unless that person is threatening you or the ones you protect with physical harm or a harm that threatens your livelihood, there is no need to fight him or whomever physically. There is no need to get all irate and ugly. That's what it is, ugly. I bet if you could go back to when you where all loud and cursing that person out, you would think you looked real ugly. There are so many unjust things in this world that we need to stand up and get real down and dirty against. Is he sleeping with another woman in your bed more serious than the genocide that is happening in Kenya or the genocide that is happening right here with the drugs and gang violence. Tell him to keep it moving no need to waste your energy. Save it to save our babies from the streets of ignorance. I am not saying don't feel because we can be hurt by these things, but it is in how we react. Assert your self with your womanly power, we have so much of it. That energy that will come off of you from your true power will get the point across, and you have all the backing of your ancestors,angels spirits etc. All of that other stuff is just a bunch of fears, anger, jealousy and hurt that is not being taken care of in the right way.
We are the healers and nurturers of this world. We have to act as such. We have to step into our power and use it wisely, know when to take the front line and know when to step back.
I found this to become all so easy when I began to experience self love. I knew that I then had the power to love others and what it meant. I no longer had to exert my ego nor did I have to let myself be run over. Jealousy began to give way and following that came arrogance past hurts and fears.
Its a journey but we must remember, and reclaim our femininity