Wednesday, November 19, 2008

A Sensual Destiny

From here I hold the beauty of his reflection. How I long to smell this man. To taste him to touch him would be magnanimous. Just to feel his voice brush past my lobes. How I yearn for those blissful vibrations

Far away in space and time but my heart rest in his hands. How I want to dance to the beat of his heart on two feet or floating in the air, for thoughts of him send me soaring into the clouds. How long must I wait to live this moment? How do I stop my lips from pulsating longing for his warm kiss? When do I get to feel the one I’ve longed for since time began?
Too much time; is it a curse or blessing for I am going mad without his embrace. I just want to taste his joyful tears. And spend my years in his good favor. Is this to much to ask when I have searched and prayed endlessly for eons. For his very presence to be dripped from the heavens into my being shedding light unto my darkest nights and putting the taste of sweetness on my tongue once again.
No man can measure, for he is a god an angel a magical occurrence like no other. I desire the pleasure just to walk across his path leaving my scent of eternity across his nose so he shall follow behind and take me into eternity.

For I never want to leave the grasp of his love. It takes me up in spirals of oneness of ecstasy of might. Tonight I will cry in the bosom of my pillow. And dream about my sensual destiny w/ the god of my prayers. Chills leave their prints on my spine when I become entranced, anxious for his sublime presence. Who cares about worldly possessions when all I want are the gems from his spirit. I will it so I will see him tomorrow and burrow my head into his chest and rest in the comfort of my loves in breath. As I breathe out I send my wishes into the universe that this is not only hopeful thinking. But we will soon be one fulfilling our sensual destiny.

For my love far away but oh so near.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Sermon 6: How Do I Love Thee

Ok, I felt I had to post this one. I am aware that there are some male members of the Coochie Church and I want to dedicate this one to you. It is not an attempt to bash, because as you have read in the last sermon I am not into that.

Men, imagine that the most beautiful goddess arose before you. She wore only jewels on her body and was dripping in glistening honey. Her breast pulsating and her legs look as if ready to wrap around you. Her eyes say take me and the scent from her was obsessively enticing.

As I can imagine you are ready to take her. You are ready to pounce, but she says, “Not yet, first you have to prepare me. And if I am impressed by your efforts then and only then will you be able to enter my temple.” What would you do? But then what if she says, “And when you enter me I want you to treat me like you know who I am (the goddess) and if you do you will be greatly rewarded. But if not you will be put to shame!” Would you shy away from the challenge or would you learn what you need to do?

Well men, I have to tell you, this is what women are saying all of the time. Some of you just don’t hear us. Do you know how to read body language? If not you must learn to be more receptive. Yes, it is great for a woman to express verbally what she wants, and we must learn how to do that more often (some of us) but be real men, some of your egos get in the way. That is what women are afraid of. They are afraid if they tell you, you might become offended. That it may even take away from the intimacy, but their body language is speaking volumes.

So many men are being put to shame behind their backs because they think they are doing their thing in the bed, but are coming up short( not literally, some men know how to work what they have). They are bragging about being “the man” and how they tear it up and all that other stuff. While she is over talking to her girlfriend saying “girl it wasn’t all that. He swore it was but I didn’t have to waste my time.” Or some women even contemplate cheating to get what they need.

When was the last time you asked your woman how she wants it? I mean even before the act. Have you had an open conversation about it? When was the last time you were able to tell by body language what your goddess needed or if it was too much? A lot of the time if she is pulling away she wants something else. Just ask. Open it up so she doesn’t feel afraid to tell you.

Do you know how to prepare your woman? Scents, (this means your scent as well) sights, touch, sound, all of these things are important to a woman. Do you know what’s important to yours? A woman does not want to be the only one setting the mood all of the time. She would like you to make her feel special and wanted. Ask her to write you a letter telling you exactly what she likes and what she wants. Ask her how you can make the experience better. Draw her bath and light some candles, and if it is spontaneous or you are going to her house bring her a small gift or rub her feet. Treat her like you would a goddess. Touch her, lick her, and talk to her. Tell her how beautiful she is. Or some woman even like for you to tell her how you want to tear it up.

Do you know her erogenous zones? Get a woman open and any where you touch will become one. Do you know how to find her g-spot and what positions you can best reach it? Do you know how to keep her comfortable while you are making love? Does she like it freaky, kinky, or nasty or do you need to be very gentle? She may like all. Do you know when she says “DON’T STOP” that means don’t stop because you are in that spot that will bring her to her greatest ecstasy?

There are many books out there that will help you with the technicalities of a woman’s body. But you need to read the woman you are with as well. Do this, and your wish is her command.

Let us pray: help us to be receptive to each others needs and desires for we are here for each other. Give us the courage to ask and tell for the things we need so we will know how to make each other happy for you have given us the gift of each other, one of your greatest gifts that we must cherish GIVE THANKS!